Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly I feel bad for her. After he checked out and cheated on her the first time, he’s checking out and dumping her a second time. I’m sorry, he knew exactly who she was and should have let her be. Yes, she handled things badly but none of that was terribly surprising. In the documentary he asked her repeatedly if she forgave him for the first time. She really believed this was her happy ending because he assured her that it was. He’s pathetic.

He truly is. Why did he email her and restart this relationship ? It’s not J Lo was hunting him down. She was in a different relationship and ENGAGED when he reached out.

The first time around she was a married woman and he made passes toward her. She was led by the nose by him each time swept away by what she thought was the missing piece: the leading man/movie star to her role (because J Lo is an act /role) as leading lady .

The woman you've described here isn't very smart to be led astray so easily from a beloved fiance...

Well, the beloved fiancé humiliated her with his online affair with a reality show contestant . They were in therapy working through the issues . He was with her during the entire pandemic stuck in the house and still found a way to cheat.

It’s not like she needed much prying but again, Ben is a weirdo for reaching out with sympathy. He’s a cheater as well. Did he ever reach out with heart emojis and a sorry email to Jen Garner after he cheated on her with the nanny she hired?

He’s a d-bag

[Anonymous]

The question should be “let’s analyze Ben”. He’s the one who is unstable here. He has to stay inside the house because any social engagement or party with alcohol makes him nervous he’ll go back to drinking full bottles of scotch and passed out drunk at 11 in the morning. He’s unstable and a mess.


Jennifer’s mistake is being a fool for love. She made an album dedicated to her love for this guy twice 20 years apart and within months, Ben decides “hey , this love is too much” and tells her Bon voyage. Addicts barely love themselves so they don’t believe they deserve love from someone. Garner will also be the fool if she lets Affleck slither his way into her heart again and she loses the relationship with the attorney /CEO who has his sh*t together and isn’t an addictive mess

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

This is a good point because I believe he would have stuck around longer if the documentary and movie was well received. That says more about him then her. Neither had the right intentions going in this relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Some great love story! She shouldn’t chase after him. He’s a smoker and an addict. He’s miserable to be around. He doesn’t even look happy with himself. Both of them treat marriage like dating. There’s no great story with them. They both are walking disasters. With all their money, they sure are making bad financial decisions left and right. They also keep implicating their kids with each new girlfriend or boyfriend. The kids really lose out on these terrible told models of parents. They keep mixing ‘his’ kids with ‘her’ kids all over again. Even Jen Garner is mixing her kids with the CEO’s kids. Talk about one big messed up and confusing childhood.

Jen G has been with the CEO for years. It’s not terrible parenting for them to involve their kids at this point.

But all considered, those kids have been "connected" to multiple relationships through their parents and stepparents.

They were connected to their nanny that Ben cheated with as well.

He’s a mess. Not sure why both Jennifers are attached. Addiction is his excuse

Yes, him crossing the line into a relationship with the nanny was yet another wtf way of making things unstable for his kids.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

He doesn't either. He wasn't thinking of his three kids when he had that shotgun wedding.

[Anonymous]

I see why Leah wanted no part of that wedding. Having a friend like Jlo who doesn't care about your concerns is exhausting. Why stick around when you know how it's going to end.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

He doesn't either. He wasn't thinking of his three kids when he had that shotgun wedding.

Or when she slept with their nanny

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

He doesn't either. He wasn't thinking of his three kids when he had that shotgun wedding.

They are both extremely immature and apparently incapable of committing to a long-term relationship with anyone. Both are waaay too self-focused. Best to not have kids if you are determined to put yourself first.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

JLo has gone from one man to another her whole adult life. Seems to have a different type of addiction.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.