What is up with the parents hanging at the bus stop?

[Anonymous]

Oink

[Anonymous]

Our bus stop it's just nannies.

[Anonymous]

Interesting bc in some parts of Pa the parents required to be at bus stop, or bus driver won’t pickup/dropoff. I’m not sure where you lived but it seems odd

[Anonymous]

Helicopter says wut

[Anonymous]

Parents in our area take coffee and chat with each other for 15 minutes. Totally optional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Parents in our area take coffee and chat with each other for 15 minutes. Totally optional.

In my neighborhood there's one bus stop full of cliquey moms who seem to make it a contest into how long they can hang out the busy stop. Some days, there are a handful of moms down there for close to an hour. I am just thankful that is not my bus stop.

[Anonymous]

Half the kids at the middle school bus stop have parents present. I agree it’s a bit odd but to each their own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Parents in our area take coffee and chat with each other for 15 minutes. Totally optional.

In my neighborhood there's one bus stop full of cliquey moms who seem to make it a contest into how long they can hang out the busy stop. Some days, there are a handful of moms down there for close to an hour. I am just thankful that is not my bus stop.

At my school dropoff there's the same thing. I arrived 40 minutes late after a kids' dentist appointment and the hen party was still going on. I really want to know what on earth they are talking about every single morning.

[Anonymous]

The original post was from 5 years ago.

I live on a corner where there is a school bus stop. I don't mind the kids it is the parents I can't stand. They are louder than the kids and hang around for a while even after the school bus leaves. They have no sense that they are standing 3 feet outside of someone's window. They sometimes bring dogs so my dogs go crazy. They block my driveway, the park in front of a fire hydrant, they idle for a long time, etc.

[Anonymous]

I’m from PA. Not op or any other poster.

Do what you feel comfy doing.

Always great idea to know your neighbors in general so if there is a hiccup with no bus showing up and a parent needs to drive kids to school everyone can help each other out.

Also our hoa has a parent what’s app so many of us don’t do drop off or pick up and help each other out if we are running late with work commitments.

Parenting is hard and it’s a blessing to have support network. And the network is so helpful to have wherever you live. Who knows? Maybe one of these people are your people, and just might become great friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our stop has 30 kids, most of them second grade or younger, so yeah, there's a lot of parents. Several of us do work from home and we do chat in the morning. Life is busy, this is time we know we'll be able to chat. It's nice.

Once my kid hits 4th grade or so I think she'll walk on her own. It's only about 8 townhouses away, and we can see the stop from our house. She does walk home by herself after school (with a small group who come home on the bus and walk this way).

An average child without issues should be able to do this in first grade. 8 townhouses and you can see the stop from your house, and she might be able to do it when she's 10?!? Jesus.

We all have our different fears. So many parents cannot handle their 14 year old at a sleepover. Some hate the idea of having their 6 year old child walk alone to a bus stop.

[Anonymous]

I am there because I don’t trust my ADHD 5th grader before his meds kick in not to do something stupid. If I had a different child I wouldn’t feel the need.

[Anonymous]

Some people like to socialize at the bus stop. Some people like to go out and get a breath of fresh air in the morning.
Some people use the walk to the bus stop as an opportunity to chat with their kids.

Not sure why you care? My husband walks our kids two houses over to the bus stop every morning just because he likes to do it. Nothing weird or nefarious, it just makes him feel good.

Get over it, OP.

[Anonymous]

The others are helicopter parents.