Things you wish your wish your spouse told you before the wedding:

[Anonymous]

1) my parents (who are divorced) will cause all kinds of chaos in our lives as we get older, causing us financial and emotional stress xs 2 and it will cause major strains in our marriage.

2). We will spend almost all our vacations visiting my family in my hometown and it will suck for you

3). Having a child will make you the project manager of everything for some reason

4). When you get PPD, I won't know what to do so I do nothing

5). 5 years later, when you get really hurt in a freak accident I will rush you to the hospital, stay by your side, cancel everything at work, wait in the WR for your emergency operation and take care of you, surprising pretty much everyone with how much you do care

6). I will continue to give weird presents, but have learned to save the receipts.

[Anonymous]

I will be in the closet for 15 years of our marriage. You will be sexually rejected and humiliated no matter how much you plead, beg, and threaten divorce.

You will be bitter and angry when I come out. I thought our loveless marriage was pretty good. So did all of our friends. You refuse to try marital counseling.

Please don't leave me.

[Anonymous]

This thread has been the most honest thread ever written on this forum.

It breaks my heart.