And a thin middle aged person attempting to get to a bmi of 20 with obesity meds is part of the problem—not an answer to the “huge obesity epidemic.” |
Not pp. But it contributes to a highly misogynistic culture that feeds an epidemic of disordered eating. Teenage girls die of heart attacks thanks to this. |
My hair fell out so much my first few months on Wegovy that I cut it short. It was literally all over my floor and almost broke my roomba. My hair was really tangled. The stylist who cut it was so gentle with me — I think she thought I had cancer because of how it was falling out. It’s not as bad now, but I definitely have less hair. |
It is surprising how angry people get about weight loss drugs. They think it’s cheating and why don’t we just reduce calories and go for a run like they do? My doctor told me that people in their fifties can lose 10-15 pounds that way, but it’s much rarer for people to lose 30-40 pounds that way… which is what I’d like to do. I’m only 10-12 pounds overweight, but for most of my adult life I was 30 pounds lighter. I am like the PP who said I know how to keep it off once it’s off! So I am treating the (idea of) the meds as a jumpstart. With covid and menopause and laziness, I am 30-40 pounds heavier than I would like. I am interested in these drugs to help me get back there. |
Strange post, we think you’re lazy because you have told us you are lazy. |
But why does that make you ANGRY that I could take meds to lose a significant amount of weight if I want? |
It doesn't. What makes people angry is the eating-disordered behavior that arises out of and contributes to a misogynistic culture in which lives are destroyed and young girls literally die in an attempt to have a bmi of ... oh say ... 20 ... like what a 44 yr old PP was after. |
Multiple have already answered this question. I guess you have a starved brain too. |
You need to research how these drugs work. They change your appetite hormones - you will not necessarily “know how to keep it off” after you stop them because you may feel much hungrier and your metabolism may have completely changed. Not to mention the increased risk of osteoporosis and loss of muscle. For women in their 50s+, a BMI of 26 is actually the healthiest. No competent doctor would recommend d that a slightly overweight woman in her 50s-60s take Wegovy. |
This is me. I’ve been on for a few weeks and lost 3ponds - goal is 10. It has brought me peace and also dulled the alcohol cravings. It’s what I need and will stay on for the long hall. |
I think my PCP is competent. Graduated from good universities and is an intelligent seeming person. Not in the pocket of Big Pharma. She’s offering them to me. Why wouldn’t I, if I go in eyes open about potential side effects? |
20 is a healthy BMI. 18-25 is recommended to reduce strain on your heart. OP is not causing anorexia or heart attacks. |
NP. I see it as them leaning into their eating disorder, not trying to fight against. |
Different NP here. It’s also just participating in all the old crap where only thin women have value - not even normal weight, but thin. It’s to separate and be better-than, like the woman upthread who would literally choose death over “fat,” whatever her definition of fat is. There is something vicious and cruel towards all women, especially heavier other women, when you eagerly participate in this out of economic advantage. It always has knock-on effects. The attitude always contaminates, beginning with what you model for your kids, how your social treatment influences in turn how you treat others. It radiates and ripples out from each of us and it’s simply a lie to say it doesn’t. I used to love watching figure skating and I remember well how Midori Ito, one of the best ever women, made it to the Olympics, described how awful it was to have a perfectly normal athletic body to power her in the sport she loved described as fat and ugly. It wasn’t! But reality doesn’t matter much when everyone seemingly decides fo deride, nastily and viciously, every fckin body type besides extremely thin frames on women from puberty to grave. |
Surya Bonaly is another skater that was constantly vilified for not fitting the mold despite her spectacular athletic abilities (too muscular, too black for figure skating). The treatment from the judges was heart breaking. I hear you PP. But in the fight for acceptance of all bodies, not only the thin ones, some of you are not choosing the most convincing arms. I could appreciate the post above because it was more measured and it made me think. But if you are also one of those who just said "you are insane", "you are awful", "you are anorexic", "You should suffer" etc.. without having the tiniest doubt that you may not understand someone else's body and you are just not liking the numbers you read or the goals they have because they don't match your reality, then you end up just as intolerant and vicious as the rest. (I am the skinny fat OP of the other thread with her month challenge to lower her 34% body fat). And in that context the contamination you participate in may be the anti-thinness standard, which you could be happy with, but it is also the contamination/ spreading of a nasty way of talking to other women about their bodies, of judging them for their bodies and their choices. This reminds me of the SAHM/WOH mom debates of some other threads. The losers here are tolerance, civility and empathy. |