Dating a sweet kind loser

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is really difficult. He is so kind and sweet but despite a PhD has barely gotten anywhere in life at age 50. Is very sympathetic with the downtrodden and has not succeeded materially at all. I respect that he lives within his means (has a housemate whose rent subsidizes his very low mortgage) but am tired of splitting the bill, treating and staying in. I feel so guilty bc he’s really nice but it hard to imagine living this way now.

I thought every liked “staying in”?!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A phd in and off itself is not impressive.

Most are from non name schools and were a way to hide for 6-7 years, live off grant money, and avoid real jobs and real life. And if they couldn’t get a grant for their PhD or thesis they shouldn’t have been doing one.

Only a rare few are action-oriented personalities who go out, compete and make an impact.

Wow. That’s another accolade for my husband.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure why everyone is attacking OP.
I broke it off with a guy who is nice, sweet, sympathetic and working on his phd. Actually, he was so sympathetic he was kind of whiny.
That, in addition to the fact that he was balding.

So OP is judging him based on the status achieved given his age.
I judged based on the follicles on his head, and the 'Iron John' sensitive posturing popular in the 90s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope he inherits a ton of money after you dump him.

His parents are dead and he did not. Nice try.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why everyone is attacking OP.
I broke it off with a guy who is nice, sweet, sympathetic and working on his phd. Actually, he was so sympathetic he was kind of whiny.
That, in addition to the fact that he was balding.

So OP is judging him based on the status achieved given his age.
I judged based on the follicles on his head, and the 'Iron John' sensitive posturing popular in the 90s.

“So sympathetic he was actually whiny” - that sentence does not make sense. And WTF is “iron John.” You are a poor communicator,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why everyone is attacking OP.
I broke it off with a guy who is nice, sweet, sympathetic and working on his phd. Actually, he was so sympathetic he was kind of whiny.
That, in addition to the fact that he was balding.

So OP is judging him based on the status achieved given his age.
I judged based on the follicles on his head, and the 'Iron John' sensitive posturing popular in the 90s.

“So sympathetic he was actually whiny” - that sentence does not make sense. And WTF is “iron John.” You are a poor communicator,

Actually, your grammar/idiosyncratic word usage is similar to OPs, so I imagine you are actually OP doing some sock-puppeting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why everyone is attacking OP.
I broke it off with a guy who is nice, sweet, sympathetic and working on his phd. Actually, he was so sympathetic he was kind of whiny.
That, in addition to the fact that he was balding.

So OP is judging him based on the status achieved given his age.
I judged based on the follicles on his head, and the 'Iron John' sensitive posturing popular in the 90s.

“So sympathetic he was actually whiny” - that sentence does not make sense. And WTF is “iron John.” You are a poor communicator,

Actually, your grammar/idiosyncratic word usage is similar to OPs, so I imagine you are actually OP doing some sock-puppeting.

+1 this troll and sock puppet thread has already been reported.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope he inherits a ton of money after you dump him.

His parents are dead and he did not. Nice try.

Really combing through things to eek out 100 more fake responses…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why everyone is attacking OP.
I broke it off with a guy who is nice, sweet, sympathetic and working on his phd. Actually, he was so sympathetic he was kind of whiny.
That, in addition to the fact that he was balding.

So OP is judging him based on the status achieved given his age.
I judged based on the follicles on his head, and the 'Iron John' sensitive posturing popular in the 90s.

“So sympathetic he was actually whiny” - that sentence does not make sense. And WTF is “iron John.” You are a poor communicator,

Actually, your grammar/idiosyncratic word usage is similar to OPs, so I imagine you are actually OP doing some sock-puppeting.

+1 this troll and sock puppet thread has already been reported.

Op. And yet, is still standing, bc there is no sockpuppeting.