My fantasy life

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:In my fantasy, my spouse and I live in a 200 year old building in Rasiglia in the Italian hills. Each morning we walk past the streams to the local café-bar. We sit there with our laptops and do our fully remote jobs interspersed with DCUM postings. The day progresses from espresso to Prosecco to limoncello to grappa. The sun-dappled little piazza is the perfect place to greet our friends as they pass by or come to the bar, and we’ll strike up conversations with the tourists who stop in for a bite. I keep up with my French, Italian, German, Spanish, and Dutch so I can chat with almost everyone. Every day I feel rested and fulfilled and tell myself I’ll focus on work more tomorrow.


It cracks me up that DCUM made an appearance. Very nice!
Anonymous
It seems like yoga, less work, no husband or vaguely occupied professor husband, and mountains are main themes.
Anonymous
I would have a small but beautifully decorated bungalow on the outskirts of a medium-sized town. Plenty of acreage, and a small flower and vegetable garden. I’d have a big dog and my current miniature poodle. In the mornings I’d write my wildly successful mystery novels and in the afternoons I’d hike or ride my bike. And I’d watch the sunset each night with a glass of wine.

My husband and son would be free to visit as often as they like. 😜
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I live alone in a cabin in the woods. I wear a lot of natural fabrics and have two dogs and let my hair go grey. I spend my days working on my novel and making crafts. The house contains only handmade items and things I have sewed and knit myself. I drink a lot of tea. Since this is a hallmark movie type situation eventually a hot guy with a beard and flannel shirt shows up. He makes me a beautiful dining room table from wood he chops himself. Then he ravages me and then he makes some fine soup and bread for us which we enjoy with a fine bottle of wine as we watch the birds at the bird feeder.


I'll borrow this one.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I live in SoCal (at least this part is true!)

I am single (true again!!) so I live in a modern, spacious two-bedroom townhouse.
With ice cold A/C during the hot/humid summers!
I also have thick, plush carpet that never gets dirty or stained & lots of windows w/picturesque windows overlooking the ocean.
I have a large laundry room w/a state-of-the-art pink washer + dryer.
All of my furniture is high~quality and it all matches.
I have a private yard out back w/real grass that I don’t have to mow.

I also have three kitty 🐈‍⬛ cats 🐈 that clean their own litter boxes (ha!!) and a career where I have a private office.
I work part-time and have a substantial trust fund.
I am naturally thin despite eating fast food everyday and not working out.

I have a beautiful singing voice and can play the guitar too.
I have already published six novels and am currently working on my memoir which is highly anticipated.

Finally I have a steady boyfriend who looks like a clean(er!) cut version of Pete Davidson.


I was with you until the Pete Davidson remark. J/k I think he is pretty cute just the way he already is
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I live in a stone cottage on a cliffside overlooking the ocean. The storms rush in and the rain splatters against my windows. But I dont care - I am reading a good book in a comfy chair, and my dog is curled up by my feet in front of the fire. Later I might make myself a posset.


There is always a dog


Preferably a dog that doesn't smell or shed and poops perfumed poop that is prebagged.
Anonymous
In my fantasy life I can teleport to exciting destinations without jetlag. I swim daily in clear waters full of fish but protected from sharks.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:In my fantasy life I can teleport to exciting destinations without jetlag. I swim daily in clear waters full of fish but protected from sharks.


I hate sharks too; sooooo terrifying!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my fantasy life, I live on the upper west side in NYC in a beautiful apartment. I have a green velvet couch and my place is full of plants. I have a huge terrace. I'm a curator at the Met, but I only work 30 hours a week. I have a trust fund. My lover is a gorgeous architect. We go out to eat twice a week and then make love for hours. He gets bagels and coffee the next morning and then leaves. I have a housekeeper but no pets or children.

Add yours.


This sounds like an episode of Sex and the City.


But the lover is not that cad Mr. Big.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I live alone in a cabin in the woods. I wear a lot of natural fabrics and have two dogs and let my hair go grey. I spend my days working on my novel and making crafts. The house contains only handmade items and things I have sewed and knit myself. I drink a lot of tea. Since this is a hallmark movie type situation eventually a hot guy with a beard and flannel shirt shows up. He makes me a beautiful dining room table from wood he chops himself. Then he ravages me and then he makes some fine soup and bread for us which we enjoy with a fine bottle of wine as we watch the birds at the bird feeder.


I'll borrow this one.


Same. I’ll add a cat to the mix and the carpenter/lumberjack happens to own a cottage on the coast.
Anonymous
A lot of these fantasy lives sound pretty lonely with remote cottages and no friends.
Anonymous
Running a place like this is my fantasy: https://goldendogfarm.com/
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I live in a stone cottage on a cliffside overlooking the ocean. The storms rush in and the rain splatters against my windows. But I dont care - I am reading a good book in a comfy chair, and my dog is curled up by my feet in front of the fire. Later I might make myself a posset.


There is always a dog


Preferably a dog that doesn't smell or shed and poops perfumed poop that is prebagged.


LOL
Anonymous
I’m a diplomat’s wife living in a cushy European city. I work part time as a human rights lawyer. We have beautiful, healthy small children who are cared for daily by their adoring grandparents. Our biggest problems in life are whether we’ll try for another kid and whether we should apply for a post in South America next. We plan to retire at age 50.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I live alone in a cabin in the woods. I wear a lot of natural fabrics and have two dogs and let my hair go grey. I spend my days working on my novel and making crafts. The house contains only handmade items and things I have sewed and knit myself. I drink a lot of tea. Since this is a hallmark movie type situation eventually a hot guy with a beard and flannel shirt shows up. He makes me a beautiful dining room table from wood he chops himself. Then he ravages me and then he makes some fine soup and bread for us which we enjoy with a fine bottle of wine as we watch the birds at the bird feeder.


Here is this fantasy in more detail:


Nestled in a clearing deep within the woods, your cabin feels like a sanctuary, a place untouched by the modern world. No cell phones buzz with interruptions, no TV hums with endless noise. There are no computers, no screens. Instead, you are surrounded by the quiet hum of nature—the whispering of the wind through the trees, the bubbling of the nearby creek, and the cheerful chirping of birds. The world outside is filled with distractions, but here, in your corner of the forest, everything is simple, intentional, and grounded.

Your days are spent in the rhythm of routine: the steady work on your novel, the click of your knitting needles, the smell of fresh herbs hanging to dry in your kitchen. Every morning, you slip into soft, flowing dresses made from natural fabrics—linen, cotton, wool. The fibers breathe with the earth, shifting gently as you move. Your wardrobe, all in neutral and earthy tones, is handmade—either sewn or knit by you. Some days, it's a loose linen dress in a soft, natural brown, its hem brushing your calves as you walk barefoot through the cabin. Other days, it’s a hand-knit sweater, thick and cozy, perfect for the chill of early morning, paired with wool leggings you crafted last winter. The feel of the fabric on your skin, the slight weight of the wool, connects you more deeply to the simple joys of life.

Your hair, once a vibrant color, now flows long and grey, silver strands catching the light as they tumble loosely down your back. You let it be—untamed, beautiful in its wildness—just like the land around you. The simplicity of your appearance mirrors the simplicity of your life, free from the rush and pressure of the outside world.

Outside the cabin, your flower garden flourishes, a vibrant burst of color amidst the sea of green forest. Delicate wildflowers, sunflowers, and lush roses fill the air with their fragrance, mixing with the earthy scent of soil and pine. You tend to this garden daily, your hands working in the dirt, planting, pruning, coaxing new life from the ground. It’s a space you’ve nurtured into being, a reflection of your soul’s quiet beauty and strength. Bees buzz lazily from flower to flower, their movements almost meditative, a perfect mirror of your own slow, purposeful pace through life.

Your dogs, your constant companions, complete the picture of your woodland haven. There are two of them, both large and strong yet gentle. One, a sleek black Labrador named Cedar, follows you with calm, watchful eyes, always at your side, his coat gleaming in the sunlight. The other, a shaggy, thick-coated Bernese Mountain Dog named Willow, is all fluff and warmth, her slow, lumbering movements full of contentment. They are your protectors and your friends, trailing after you as you walk barefoot through the garden, curling up beside you as you knit by the fire, or lying at your feet while you sip tea and write. When the nights grow cold, they settle on the wool rug in front of the fireplace, their steady breathing the only sound you hear as the crackling fire warms the room.

One autumn afternoon, as the leaves start to turn gold and the air takes on the crispness of fall, you’re out in the garden, pruning the roses. The sun is warm on your back, and the dogs are stretched out lazily in the grass nearby. That’s when you hear it—footsteps on the gravel path leading to your cabin. You stand, brushing the dirt off your dress, and see him.

He’s tall and broad, with a ruggedness that suggests he belongs here, in this untamed place. His flannel shirt is worn, the sleeves rolled up to reveal strong, tanned forearms dusted with sawdust and dirt. His jeans are faded, frayed at the edges, and his boots are well-worn, evidence of many days spent working outside. His beard is thick and dark, flecked with just the faintest hint of silver, and his hair, a little long, falls around his face in loose waves. There’s something about him that immediately puts you at ease, as though he’s another part of the landscape, just as natural as the trees and the sky.

He introduces himself—his name is Jack—and there’s a quiet confidence in his voice, a calmness that mirrors your own. He doesn’t explain why he’s here; it doesn’t seem necessary. He tells you that he’s a woodworker, and while wandering through the woods, he noticed your cabin and thought you might need something. His eyes drift over the garden, the cabin, the dogs lounging nearby, and they rest on your small, rickety dining table visible through the kitchen window.

“I can make you something better,” he says, the ghost of a smile tugging at the corner of his lips.

You don’t hesitate. There’s something about Jack that feels familiar, even though you’ve only just met. You nod, offering him some tea, and the two of you sit on the porch while he tells you about his work. He’s been living off the land for years, chopping wood, building furniture by hand, using nothing but the trees around him and his skill. The way he talks about his craft is almost poetic, each piece of furniture a story in itself.

The next day, Jack returns with his truck, loaded with freshly cut wood. You watch as he works, chopping the wood in long, smooth motions, his muscles rippling with each swing of the axe. There’s a grace to his movements, a rhythm, and it mesmerizes you. The dogs lie in the grass nearby, watching as intently as you are. Occasionally, Jack glances over his shoulder and catches your eye, a silent exchange that makes your heart flutter.

The table he creates is nothing short of a masterpiece—solid and beautiful, crafted with care and precision. When it’s finished, he brings it into your kitchen, and for a moment, the two of you stand in silence, admiring how perfectly it fits in the space. Then, without a word, he pulls you toward him, his hands rough but gentle as they skim over your waist. His lips meet yours, and it feels as though you’ve been waiting for this moment for longer than you can remember.

Later, after the passion between you has quieted into a comfortable intimacy, Jack surprises you by heading to the kitchen. He prepares a simple, hearty soup with the vegetables you harvested from your garden earlier in the day, his hands moving deftly, slicing and stirring as the dogs rest by the fire. The smell of the broth fills the room, rich and comforting. As the soup simmers, he bakes a loaf of bread, its warmth filling the air as the sun dips low behind the trees, casting golden light across the flower garden outside.

You sit together at the new dining table, sipping red wine, the dogs curled up at your feet, the crackling fire warming the room. You talk about everything and nothing—the kind of easy conversation that makes the evening stretch in a perfect, contented rhythm.

But even as you share this moment, you know it’s not forever. Jack belongs to the forest as much as you do, but in a different way. There’s an unspoken understanding that he won’t stay. He’s a wanderer, passing through, and you realize you’re glad for it. His presence has been a gift, but the life you’ve built is for you and your dogs, not for anyone else.

When the fire dies down and the wine bottle is empty, Jack rises. He smiles softly, his hand grazing your cheek for a moment before he turns and heads toward the door. You watch him leave, his broad frame fading into the darkness of the forest. The dogs lift their heads for a moment, then settle back into sleep. You take a deep breath, feeling the cool night air drift in from the open window.

The cabin is quiet again. Your table gleams in the dim light, a reminder of Jack’s brief visit, but the space is yours once more. Just you, your dogs, your garden, and the peaceful rhythm of life you’ve created.

As you settle into your chair by the fire with your knitting, Cedar and Willow at your feet, you smile. Jack came, made his mark, and left. And now, the cabin is as it should be—calm, quiet, and exactly the way you want it.
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