My fantasy life

[Anonymous]

I would also live in NYC. I'd have a cute little white dog, but not too little, that is trained impeccably. I'd have a personal chef (bc I can't cook), and take a yoga class every day. My dog would come to yoga, and sleep on a nearby mat only waking to do downward dogs with us.

I would be friends with Harry Styles, who would stay with me when he's in NYC, and come to yoga with us. He'd bring me free tote bags.

[Anonymous]

In my fantasy life I have never met the people that have hurt my family so badly, or I meet them and recognize them for what they will do to us and I run in the other direction.

And secondly, I don't care where I live or what I do for a living, but I spend it with my soulmate that I met, fell in love with, and had to say goodbye to. We have a life together that ends up the opposite in almost every way from the one I'm living right now.


Everything else would be secondary to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once a year I have to make the trek up to Martha’s Vineyard to sit in on the family meeting to ensure our trusts are being handled properly. My brother brings the artist that he’s sleeping with who is less than half his age, she’s from some eastern bloc country and it’s some kind of fiber art that looks like someone emptied the vacuum. He goes on and on about how her art is a statement on economic slavery while she, the artist, rolls her eyes at me.

I spend my time setting up permanent residences for kids that are aging out of foster care, I gave them a place that they can call home for the rest of their lives if they want it, guidance for education, personal finance and I have staff that teaches them how healthy relationships can work. I have a workshop where I fabricate architectural sheet metal elements for a few restoration contractors. My shrimp farm that I set up on the eastern shore has just turned a profit and the quality is so good I may be the first supplier up for a James Beard award.

I have a house on Providenciales, another on Long Island sound and a cabin in the woods in Maine; each one has a boat.

I never say the word no, someone says hey do you want to go to Paris? the answer is yes, someone says hey want to go try catfish noodling?, the answer is yes, want to go to Iceland to see the northern lights, yes I do, want to go to Burger King?, yes I do, think we could get into the French laundry tomorrow? Yes I do.

I forgot to add, I tend to wrap up my relationships with women when the new relationship energy starts to fade, usually in the six to ten months we were together I become well aware of their pain points and their parting gift may be a wiped out college loan, a condo or seed money for their new business. I’m super upfront before any relationship starts that our time together has an expiration date.

[Anonymous]

I’m a low-key billionaire living in a historic gingerbread Victorian, which I’ve painted in a colorful yet period-appropriate palette.

Through my lawyers, I have secretly paid off all my friends’ student debt. I spend most of my time crafting in my sunny attic studio and planning extravagant group trips for me and my friends. I especially enjoy sending them themed gifts in anticipation of the next trip (hiking boots for New Zealand, binoculars for Tanzania).

I work part time at an NGO, and I secretly cover most of its annual budget. It runs like butter and our projects are considered exemplars.

Every year I host a big open house with fondue fountains featuring my favorite cheeses. I invite all the shelter dogs who are up for adoption to play in the yard and find new families.

[Anonymous]

I live my fantasy life. Can't even thing of anything better.

[Anonymous]

I just want to sleep well. Any life in which I sleep well. That's it.

[Anonymous]

In my fantasy life, I live at a Four Seasons in a 3-bedroom apartment. There's a great restaurant downstairs and daily maid service. It's of course on a beach.

My daily stressor is whether or not I can get in for my daily facial/body treatment/massage.

I make huge donations for causes I love since money is endless.

[Anonymous]

I live in rural cabin in Alaska. I have money put aside for my living expenses and retirement and my kids’ college and my elder family’s health care needs. I work part time on open source projects during school hours, and have a couple acres I careful husband as a food forest (in this fantasy I don’t kill half the plants I’m trying to grow). I have space on my property for my hobbies and friends come to visit or stay regularly. My lover is some kind of artist/performer who travels for work — they visit a couple times a year and we have a wonderful time and then they get out of my hair again. I’m a certified foster parent and have helped multiple kids get their feet under them — maybe adopted one or two who didn’t have a good home to go back to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live alone in a cabin in the woods. I wear a lot of natural fabrics and have two dogs and let my hair go grey. I spend my days working on my novel and making crafts. The house contains only handmade items and things I have sewed and knit myself. I drink a lot of tea. Since this is a hallmark movie type situation eventually a hot guy with a beard and flannel shirt shows up. He makes me a beautiful dining room table from wood he chops himself. Then he ravages me and then he makes some fine soup and bread for us which we enjoy with a fine bottle of wine as we watch the birds at the bird feeder.

I like this fantasy. Can I be your similar trajectories friend who meets up at craft fairs and farmers markets to hear all your adventures?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live my fantasy life. Can't even thing of anything better.

Describe it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my fantasy life, I live at a Four Seasons in a 3-bedroom apartment. There's a great restaurant downstairs and daily maid service. It's of course on a beach. My daily stressor is whether or not I can get in for my daily facial/body treatment/massage. I make huge donations for causes I love since money is endless.

My fantasy is also to live in a fancy hotel. Daily made service? Yes please. Restaurant and room service? Yes please. In-house gym and spa? Yes please. Yet all while still being in a city!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Once a year I have to make the trek up to Martha’s Vineyard to sit in on the family meeting to ensure our trusts are being handled properly. My brother brings the artist that he’s sleeping with who is less than half his age, she’s from some eastern bloc country and it’s some kind of fiber art that looks like someone emptied the vacuum. He goes on and on about how her art is a statement on economic slavery while she, the artist, rolls her eyes at me.

I spend my time setting up permanent residences for kids that are aging out of foster care, I gave them a place that they can call home for the rest of their lives if they want it, guidance for education, personal finance and I have staff that teaches them how healthy relationships can work. I have a workshop where I fabricate architectural sheet metal elements for a few restoration contractors. My shrimp farm that I set up on the eastern shore has just turned a profit and the quality is so good I may be the first supplier up for a James Beard award.

I have a house on Providenciales, another on Long Island sound and a cabin in the woods in Maine; each one has a boat.

I never say the word no, someone says hey do you want to go to Paris? the answer is yes, someone says hey want to go try catfish noodling?, the answer is yes, want to go to Iceland to see the northern lights, yes I do, want to go to Burger King?, yes I do, think we could get into the French laundry tomorrow? Yes I do.

I forgot to add, I tend to wrap up my relationships with women when the new relationship energy starts to fade, usually in the six to ten months we were together I become well aware of their pain points and their parting gift may be a wiped out college loan, a condo or seed money for their new business. I’m super upfront before any relationship starts that our time together has an expiration date.

Are you a man or a lesbian? Im confused because I dont think it would matter to me.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a low-key billionaire living in a historic gingerbread Victorian, which I’ve painted in a colorful yet period-appropriate palette.

Through my lawyers, I have secretly paid off all my friends’ student debt. I spend most of my time crafting in my sunny attic studio and planning extravagant group trips for me and my friends. I especially enjoy sending them themed gifts in anticipation of the next trip (hiking boots for New Zealand, binoculars for Tanzania).

I work part time at an NGO, and I secretly cover most of its annual budget. It runs like butter and our projects are considered exemplars.

Every year I host a big open house with fondue fountains featuring my favorite cheeses. I invite all the shelter dogs who are up for adoption to play in the yard and find new families.

I'd like to join this fantasy. Maybe my fantasy life is I'm magically rich from my career as a cheese consultant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Once a year I have to make the trek up to Martha’s Vineyard to sit in on the family meeting to ensure our trusts are being handled properly. My brother brings the artist that he’s sleeping with who is less than half his age, she’s from some eastern bloc country and it’s some kind of fiber art that looks like someone emptied the vacuum. He goes on and on about how her art is a statement on economic slavery while she, the artist, rolls her eyes at me.

I spend my time setting up permanent residences for kids that are aging out of foster care, I gave them a place that they can call home for the rest of their lives if they want it, guidance for education, personal finance and I have staff that teaches them how healthy relationships can work. I have a workshop where I fabricate architectural sheet metal elements for a few restoration contractors. My shrimp farm that I set up on the eastern shore has just turned a profit and the quality is so good I may be the first supplier up for a James Beard award.

I have a house on Providenciales, another on Long Island sound and a cabin in the woods in Maine; each one has a boat.

I never say the word no, someone says hey do you want to go to Paris? the answer is yes, someone says hey want to go try catfish noodling?, the answer is yes, want to go to Iceland to see the northern lights, yes I do, want to go to Burger King?, yes I do, think we could get into the French laundry tomorrow? Yes I do.

I forgot to add, I tend to wrap up my relationships with women when the new relationship energy starts to fade, usually in the six to ten months we were together I become well aware of their pain points and their parting gift may be a wiped out college loan, a condo or seed money for their new business. I’m super upfront before any relationship starts that our time together has an expiration date.

Are you a man or a lesbian? Im confused because I dont think it would matter to me.....

I'm a man

[Anonymous]

My fantasy life: as a child I was interested in math and biology, and I had an aptitude for those types of subjects, and my family encouraged it. I became an accomplished medical researcher and doctor doing the kinds of medical research that’s really feel good. Like pediatric cancer or Alzheimer’s disease. My work creates some breakthroughs and I’m lauded for it and ultimately, some lives are saved or at least much improved. My husband is a tenured college professor in his chosen field. We have 2 great kids and we somehow, through a mysterious source of family money, can have them attend a nurturing, attentive private school. We live in a charming, historical, California-style craftsman bungalow in a fairly walkable inner ring suburb, and we also have a beach cottage or condo in an East Coast beach town that’s somehow low key and still flying under the radar a little. I have a variety of active hobbies like hiking and tennis. Since research and academia doesn’t put as much emphasis on your looks as the corporate world, I let my hair grow naturally and wear vaguely ageless clothes, such that people constantly wonder if I’m 40 or 70 or somewhere in between.