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Anonymous wrote:I thought all of the colleges knew about and respected the rigor of the big 3. Or are publics getting more rigorous and now colleges believe they are comparing apples to apples?
The issue is that raw incoming GPA matters more than before for a lot of colleges because (a) ranking systems (which colleges still care deeply about even though they might moan about them publicly) use incoming GPA in the rankings and (b) the increase in test-optional and no tests considered at all means incoming GPA is much more heavily weighted. Then Covid changed grading substantially in a lot of public schools in particular, leading to these schools where over half the class has 4.0+ and if they even calculate valedictorian (and a lot don’t), there are 100+ of them. Plus, a lot of the public schools have removed any barriers to AP classes, so kids can easily take 10-12 AP classes. Public schools aren’t getting more rigorous (as someone with kids in both, I’d argue the opposite is true), but grade inflation and the impact of the grade inflation has gone up.
Rigor depends on what the student chooses. But, if one child starts Algebra in 6/7 and another in 8/9, one child obviously has a more rigorous education.
yes, but the courses are heavily gate-kept. There is no "choosing" courses at NCS. You can't "choose" to take Algebra in 6th grade. In my daughter's class there was not a single current student who took Algebra 1 before 8th grade. NOT ONE. The school heavily gate keeps the courses. Then about 10 girls were allowed to take geometry before 9th grade in order to accelerate by one grade. You could not petition or beg to be allowed into this cohort. Parents got involved but could not sway the system--the SCHOOL CHOSE. You were either selected or you were not. These 10 girls were allowed to take a summer geometry course (of their own payment) and then were allowed to enroll in Algebra 2 in 9th grade.
Math is the only subject in which girls are accelerated or allowed to choose their classes prior to APs (which have since been eliminated). So there is now really no choice at all except in what subjects one takes as electives but there are not levels of courses with more or less rigor.
No, you also choose the school and if you want more rigor, you choose a more flexible school. That sounds pretty terrible for really smart kids. That doesn't sound like in the girls best interests to make really smart kids wait till 8th for Algebra. Is that for the school's needs or the girls? You have to assume all these girls are very smart to get into that school, so it makes no sense not to offer more. But, we found that pretty typical at most privates when we tried to transfer our child to a private. They said we'd have to hold our child back and they'd have to repeat math, do it privately or pay them extra for a tutor/private class.
Those of us with seniors chose NCS before APs were eliminated, before college admissions went TO, etc. It is an entirely different admissions landscape that our daughters are now trying to navigate. I know intellectually that there are a lot of great colleges that aren’t highly ranked.
However, it is hard when you think about that fact that you spent $200,000 on a high school education (which is an unbelievable education!) and your daughter is scoring in the 99% on entrance exams and the best college admit they have is ranked around 150 on USNWR. The lower NCS GPAs are not reflective of their ability, effort and intelligence.
Can we refer back to this thread and this bolded sentence whenever someone says they aren't sending their kids to private schools solely for college admissions? That they don't care where their kids go to college, they just want their kids to have the great private education?
I don't care where my kids go to college but they will go where we can afford which will be a state school as I am not ok with them taking out loans/debt. If we can do more great but I'd rather pay for graduate school. My spouse went to a no name school and has a good career. It really depends on the major.
We go back and forth about transferring to private school. We've done summer private classes and some are good and some, like last summer were the worst we've ever had so I cannot imagine spending $50-60K for that. And, we have the math issue since like those here are saying our child would have to backtrack math and they don't want to and I'd never force them to (nor did I push going this advanced but they choose it).
I want my kids to have a great education, public or private. My concerns with private are college admissions as schools only take in so many students per high school and you are competing against 100-200 or more similar students, some with far more money and connections who will get the edge. Let's be real. In public, you have 600-1000 in a graduating class with a huge mix of students so there is a better chance of getting into a school numbers-wise.
Private to me is better if they have a more formal education with books and textbooks which the public is very much lacking (but the last summer class we took did away with textbooks and it was awful at the private and the private school blew off complaints and didn't do anything so it cost us more money to hire a tutor to get through the class - in hindsight we should have just dropped the class as it was that bad). My child learns better with textbooks and a more formal style. But, the math track is a serious issue. But, after that class my child doesn't want private.
But, really, you are competing against 200 girls who are pretty similar so money, connections, and extra talents/sports will get chosen first.
You send your child to that school as it's a good fit for them and your family and it provides them a good strong high school experience. Not for college admission.