Accepted ED but ex refuses to help pay

[Anonymous]

Your kid can get married or have a kid to be considered an adult and get different financial aid. Other than that it’s on you is the custodial parent to take out loans. This should’ve been discussed before she put a ED. As custodial parent when you sign the ED application you should’ve understood you were paying for it not the secondary parent. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD accepted ED to Cornell. My ex refuses to pay for DD college. What are my options besides her taking out loans?

By the way loan beyond $5500 are yours. Anyway you signed paperwork for ED. Read what u sign in future. No sympathy for you to dump on non casodial parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The second wife poster likes to pop up in all threads involving money of men who fathered children and now want to be wooed by their children as a condition of continuing to be their father. Big surprise that she uses words like "demand" to describe how his kids and their mom presented the need for him to pony up like every other father does.

Thank goodness my kid's dad isn't such a heartless jerk and that he didn't marry a greedy woman who thinks she has any say whatsoever in the relationship between my kid and their dad.

I thought that there was something like that going on. yes, thank goodness that your kid's dad has taken that path - must be a huge relief.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife poster likes to pop up in all threads involving money of men who fathered children and now want to be wooed by their children as a condition of continuing to be their father. Big surprise that she uses words like "demand" to describe how his kids and their mom presented the need for him to pony up like every other father does.

Thank goodness my kid's dad isn't such a heartless jerk and that he didn't marry a greedy woman who thinks she has any say whatsoever in the relationship between my kid and their dad.

I thought that there was something like that going on. yes, thank goodness that your kid's dad has taken that path - must be a huge relief.

Has NOT taken that path