Why do guys cheat with women opposite from the ones they date?
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Anonymous
| Because the women do sexual things the girlfriend or wife won’t do. I’ve hooked up with too many married women than I care to count and the response I typically got, “My husband would never do those things to me.” They always left satisfied! |
Anonymous
I thought the same thing. If so, i's been like 2 years OP time to move on. seriously seek professional help. |
Anonymous
+ OP, seek profesional help. |
Anonymous
| The women I am most attracted to are usually not the most ideal for long term relationships, but would be the most fun. |
Anonymous
| My ex used to date beautiful and kind women who were successful in what they did (me included) and cheat with plain or ugly women who were a bit rough by contrast. I guess they were not likely to have high expectations of him and he was not likely to provide anything other than a fxxk. |
Anonymous
+1 My AP is similar to my DW |
Anonymous
| What is BBW? |
Anonymous
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Man here, most of these answers are from women guessing. One of the above nailed it:
It's low hanging fruit and men in general are hungry and married men specifically are often starving. If you reduce people to desirability numbers, an attractive, successful married man who is an 8 can seduce a woman who is a 5 much easier than a womab who is a 9. And the thing is, men really are attracted and want to sleep with average looking women, and an average looking woman who is good in bed is greater than a hot woman who is a starfish which may describe his wife |
Anonymous
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Cheating is a crime of Opportunity ... plain and simple.
Don’t care how ugly, stupid or crazy ... it’s temporary. |
Anonymous
These men have a fetish. They can get part of it (the racial difference) without fear of too much social disapproval, but they are ashamed that they like curves. |
Anonymous
| It depends. NSA, or a secret GF? My ex left for his AP and it was a lateral move, looks-wise. |
Anonymous
This. My ex cheated with an ugly dumpy loser who he never would date if they were both single. She made herself available and provided her house so he didn’t even have to pay a cent to get laid. He didn’t spend a dime on her. He did the bare minimum and got what he wanted. An accomplished good-looking woman with her own career would not settle for that. |
Anonymous
Ha! SO true! |
Anonymous
| People "affair down." |
Anonymous
It’s not always temporary. I’ve been with mine for 18 years now . It’s more emotional then physical but through the years those 2 flip flop a lot between needs. |