Heartbroken

[Anonymous]

Just remember that it’s not possible to sustain this level of grief forever, OP. The pain will become less in time. I think your idea to work on yourself is a great plan. An in-shape guy who speaks 3 languages sounds like an amazing catch to me!

[Anonymous]

She can't bring herself to leave her husband?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get a dog.

This is actually great advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up, OP?

She was the one who broke things off. Oh my god the story behind this is really crazy and I don't think most people would understand. And her situation is so unique that if I posted it on here, anyone reading this who knows her would immediately recognize who I'm talking about. (she is extremely well known). Our lives are so different that even though we love each other, well...the pressures were too great for her. It's something I could never write down, because I just can't describe in writing the entire situation. Bottom line...we come from 2 different worlds. I do wish I had someone to sit down over coffee with and talk about all of this though.

Stedman, is that you? I thought we took an oath of silence! SMH.

Sigh,
~O~

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up, OP?

She was the one who broke things off. Oh my god the story behind this is really crazy and I don't think most people would understand. And her situation is so unique that if I posted it on here, anyone reading this who knows her would immediately recognize who I'm talking about. (she is extremely well known). Our lives are so different that even though we love each other, well...the pressures were too great for her. It's something I could never write down, because I just can't describe in writing the entire situation. Bottom line...we come from 2 different worlds. I do wish I had someone to sit down over coffee with and talk about all of this though.

Stedman, is that you? I thought we took an oath of silence! SMH.

Sigh,
~O~

Is this because she's running for Vice President?

[Anonymous]

Sorry, OP. I have no advice for you other than it takes time. How much time? Depends on how much you loved the person I guess. Try to keep busy, work on things you enjoy, hobbies and set a time limit for yourself each day to freely think about it and then stay busy again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get a dog.

This is actually great advice.

Dogs are great, there's love and companionship. Will give something for OP to do, get out of his own head, and it can be a way to meet new people. However, he should only do it if he can commit for at least 10-15 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:51 year old guy here....my girlfriend and I just broke up after 1 1/2 years. I'm incredibly heartbroken and crushed. I have no idea why I'm writing it down on here. I do nothing online and don't even have a Facebook account....I just needed to write this for some stupid reason. I am so heartbroken and lonely.

I'm sorry to hear this (58 year old woman). It's hard to lose someone that you were comfortable with. Facing the unknown is pretty scary. I will tell you that so many women are looking for a really good guy so after some adjustment, you will find love again. Please keep posting whenever you feel sad and we'll try and fill the void.

[Anonymous]

Oy! Forget that bitch and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.

Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up, OP?

She was the one who broke things off. Oh my god the story behind this is really crazy and I don't think most people would understand. And her situation is so unique that if I posted it on here, anyone reading this who knows her would immediately recognize who I'm talking about. (she is extremely well known). Our lives are so different that even though we love each other, well...the pressures were too great for her. It's something I could never write down, because I just can't describe in writing the entire situation. Bottom line...we come from 2 different worlds. I do wish I had someone to sit down over coffee with and talk about all of this though.

Stedman, is that you? I thought we took an oath of silence! SMH.

Sigh,
~O~

Is this because she's running for Vice President?

I see I’m not the only one spending a little too much time in the dcum lounge!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.

Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?

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Not heartbroken anymore?

[Anonymous]

OP, you need to bang some young strange to get the funk out of your system.

[Anonymous]

Join a yoga class and immerse yourself in it. ( takes effort to be present and cut out the noise) . Makes a difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.

Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/901329.page There you go my work here is done.