How does a man getting turned down by his wife feel?

[Anonymous]

Because we wanna release the demon seed inside your womb!

[Anonymous]

I have never turned down my DH ever, because I am more interested in sex than he is. I have recently semi-slept through sex though, and he did not mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women actually enjoy the cruel feeling of power they get from rejecting their husband and watching him slink away.

No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I have never turned down my DH ever, because I am more interested in sex than he is. I have recently semi-slept through sex though, and he did not mind.

You will be cast into hell by every women’s’ group in the country. Have you no shame? Join the sisterhood and make men crawl on their bellies if they want a taste of the forbidden fruit!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I have never turned down my DH ever, because I am more interested in sex than he is. I have recently semi-slept through sex though, and he did not mind.

Troll!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hurt, angry, unappreciated, unattractive. Need I say more?

Stop farting and burping and grabbing your nuts like you’re alone. Try making love to her instead of just pouncing. Take her out. Give her time to make herself feel attractive. Talk to her like you’re not always right. Stop making her do 100% of the emotional labor.
Yes, women tire of their husbands. You need to be playful and give her imagination space so she can be motivated to have sex with you again. Sorry but this is the truth.
She has responsibilities too. She needs to pull her weight without complaint, tell you you’re sexy, flirt, do thoughtful things. Just thought you’d want the woman’s perspective too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: I have never turned down my DH ever, because I am more interested in sex than he is. I have recently semi-slept through sex though, and he did not mind.

You will be cast into hell by every women’s’ group in the country. Have you no shame? Join the sisterhood and make men crawl on their bellies if they want a taste of the forbidden fruit!

You are wrong pp. Nobody cares what this particular woman does
No body!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I have never turned down my DH ever, because I am more interested in sex than he is. I have recently semi-slept through sex though, and he did not mind.

I have. My husband is often just not cognizant if what is going on in the rest of the house sometimes . Just because he has the day off and woke up ready to go doesn’t mean the kids don’t need to be at school in 20 minutes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a woman, I’m curious to know why this hurts men so much. I’ve heard lots of women say the moment they turn their husband down, they get all nasty and sulky.

They feel their husband’s behavior is unreasonable. However, from a male’s perspective, is this reasonable?

What? (Turns up the volume on SportsCenter) Sorry I can’t really hear you, dear. (Spins chair so back towards you). Did you say som.... (Screams with frustration) No way are you blind umpire, he was out by a mile!!!

[Anonymous]

Feel like your family jewels are in a vice. Sore and swollen. Backed up and need to explode. No, I’m not gonna rub one out. I’ll get a FWB to take care of me.

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman, but I imagine it depends on the maturity of the man and frequency of rejection.

For a man of reasonable man of typical maturity infrequent rejection is no big deal.

Regular rejection is more hurtful and likely to be felt as a rejection of them as a person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my early 30s, I used to be in "problem solving mode" which was 'how can we fix this' - or "I bet this will get better when kids get older

In my late 30s I would get resentful that things never got better.

In my mid 40s I don't initiate and we are on a 3 month drought and I don't really want to have sex with her anymore. After a while you stop seeing your spouse as a sexual person if they reject you. I posted elsewhere our marriage is actually somewhat better without the initiation/rejection cycle. For now, I would rather be celibate and see my kids everyday but I know it's not sustainable in the long term.

This except I am the wife and the husband is the one who has low drive, ED and insecurities. I just don't even seem him as a sexual being anymore so I no longer feel rejected b him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women actually enjoy the cruel feeling of power they get from rejecting their husband and watching him slink away.

Nope. Clearly you don’t understand women. Could this be your issue at home?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hurt, angry, unappreciated, unattractive. Need I say more?

Stop farting and burping and grabbing your nuts like you’re alone. Try making love to her instead of just pouncing. Take her out. Give her time to make herself feel attractive. Talk to her like you’re not always right. Stop making her do 100% of the emotional labor.
Yes, women tire of their husbands. You need to be playful and give her imagination space so she can be motivated to have sex with you again. Sorry but this is the truth.
She has responsibilities too. She needs to pull her weight without complaint, tell you you’re sexy, flirt, do thoughtful things. Just thought you’d want the woman’s perspective too.

LOL wow women have it so easy. The world just revolves around their little finger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women actually enjoy the cruel feeling of power they get from rejecting their husband and watching him slink away.

Wow, I have a pretty good idea why you’re not getting any. I’ll tell ya for $5.