Rate your spouse on these, and are you content?

[Anonymous]

Male version of this...

Rate your wife on frequency and quality of
1. Sex
2. BJs
3. Sammiches

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 4
2. Humor 4
3. Generosity 3
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 8
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Content most of the time

Well, we all see what you value in a spouse...

Haha beat me to it

[Anonymous]

0 on everything except nice looks and a minimal effort at parenting.

He didn't use to be like this. His mental disorder has become really handicapping but he still denies he has a problem and refuses treatment. No, obviously, the kids and I are not happy with him, but we're not getting divorced.

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness - 9
2. Humor - 9
3. Generosity - 9
4. Parenting - 9
5. Attractiveness--face - 8
6. Attractiveness--body - 7
7. Career success - 7
8. Earnings - 7

Very happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 8 (he'd get a 10 but some jokes are corny dad jokes)
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 15
5. Attractiveness--face 10
6. Attractiveness--body 10
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Totally happy.

How did you find this unicorn??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On scale of 1-10, 1 being low and 10 being high, rate your spouse's:

1. Kindness - 9
2. Humor - 7
3. Generosity - 9
4. Parenting - 8
5. Attractiveness--face - 7
6. Attractiveness--body- 4
7. Career success -7
8. Earnings 6

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

Hm. I was. I'm no longer. But it isn't any of the above that caused the discontent.

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness 8
2. Humor 6
3. Generosity 4
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 7
7. Career success 9
8. Earnings 7

Very content. Here’s how he would rate me:


1. Kindness 5
2. Humor 8
3. Generosity 8
4. Parenting 9
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 7
7. Career success 7
8. Earnings 8

If I ramped up the sex more, my kindness score would go
up to a 9. We’re both very content with room for improvement on the bj front.

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness - 5
2. Humor - 8
3. Generosity - 7 (very generous with money but not time)
4. Parenting - 5
5. Attractiveness--face - 8
6. Attractiveness--body- 8
7. Career success -7
8. Earnings 8

Content 70% of the time. I wish he did more with the kids without me twisting his arm, and I wish he would get his anxiety under control.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 9
3. Generosity 8
4. Parenting 9
5. Attractiveness--face 9
6. Attractiveness--body 6
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 4

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

Yes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 8 (he'd get a 10 but some jokes are corny dad jokes)
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 15
5. Attractiveness--face 10
6. Attractiveness--body 10
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Totally happy.

Wonder how most others would rate the attractivness of this spouse.

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness 8
2. Humor 10
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 9
6. Attractiveness--body 7 - a little chubby
7. Career success 10+
8. Earnings 10+

Yes, someone who is incredibly successful can also be a really good man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On scale of 1-10, 1 being low and 10 being high, rate your spouse's:

1. Kindness
2. Humor
3. Generosity
4. Parenting
5. Attractiveness--face
6. Attractiveness--body
7. Career success
8. Earnings

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

1. 9
2. 10
3. 9
4. 9
5. 10
6. 10
7. 9
8. 9


Yes. Content and happy.

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
2. Humor 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
3. Generosity 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
4. Parenting 2
5. Attractiveness--face 7
6. Attractiveness--body 5 (used to be closer to 10, 15 years ago)
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 9

are you content being married to this person? -- No. Planning to divorce.

[Anonymous]

Those of you who rated your dh as having a nice body (8-10 for instance), what made you rate them so high? Are they fit? Muscles? Large downstairs? What is it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Those of you who rated your dh as having a nice body (8-10 for instance), what made you rate them so high? Are they fit? Muscles? Large downstairs? What is it?

Not fat and proportional.