Is This Assault I Should Pursue?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pursue this assault? For an ass grab? Really? How old are you? I have had my ass grabbed by strangers multiple times in life. They were sober. Yes, it is violating but it is not that bad. He was a drinking jerk. Move on. I was almost raped once and in high school I fell asleep on bus and woke up to a classmate’s finger inside me. I was a virgin. An ass grab with clothes on? Give me a break.

You have very low standards. Women shouldn’t accept this kind of behavior from me. Time is up.

Op is right to be upset and have a problem with this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pursue this assault? For an ass grab? Really? How old are you? I have had my ass grabbed by strangers multiple times in life. They were sober. Yes, it is violating but it is not that bad. He was a drinking jerk. Move on. I was almost raped once and in high school I fell asleep on bus and woke up to a classmate’s finger inside me. I was a virgin. An ass grab with clothes on? Give me a break.

You have very low standards. Women shouldn’t accept this kind of behavior from me. Time is up.

Op is right to be upset and have a problem with this.

An ass grab while drunk is not even close to assault. The comparison is disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pursue this assault? For an ass grab? Really? How old are you? I have had my ass grabbed by strangers multiple times in life. They were sober. Yes, it is violating but it is not that bad. He was a drinking jerk. Move on. I was almost raped once and in high school I fell asleep on bus and woke up to a classmate’s finger inside me. I was a virgin. An ass grab with clothes on? Give me a break.

You have very low standards. Women shouldn’t accept this kind of behavior from me. Time is up.

Well then you should stop behaving like that then!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is “the old shy smile”?

Just part of this frictional little story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is “the old shy smile”?

Yeah, what is that?

It is the sorority girl equivalent of “frat boy sorta way”.

[Anonymous]

It's our responsibility to take care of these situations on our own, when they happen. Arm yourself with words and, if necessary, actions.

[Anonymous]

How big is your ass?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m never sure why posters give this level of detail.

Yeah, I wondered that too. Saying it was in Old Town, etc.

[Anonymous]

Whats with the confusion over the smile? I took it as that face you give to acquaintances you're not fond of. a forced smile and a quick acknowledgement.

Shame on you saying this isn't assault. Unwanted touching is assault. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pursue this assault? For an ass grab? Really? How old are you? I have had my ass grabbed by strangers multiple times in life. They were sober. Yes, it is violating but it is not that bad. He was a drinking jerk. Move on. I was almost raped once and in high school I fell asleep on bus and woke up to a classmate’s finger inside me. I was a virgin. An ass grab with clothes on? Give me a break.

Jesus. Did you report your classmate?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pursue this assault? For an ass grab? Really? How old are you? I have had my ass grabbed by strangers multiple times in life. They were sober. Yes, it is violating but it is not that bad. He was a drinking jerk. Move on. I was almost raped once and in high school I fell asleep on bus and woke up to a classmate’s finger inside me. I was a virgin. An ass grab with clothes on? Give me a break.

Jesus. Did you report your classmate?

No, I did not. My dad was the principal.

[Anonymous]

Gross. No you weren’t assaulted. You just hang out with really sketchy people. I cannot imagine any of our friends behaving like that.

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course you were assaulted, but calling the police probably won't help anyone.

I'd tell his wife, with your DH there for emotional support, and then try to move on.

[Anonymous]

Let your DH go have a talk with him sober. He needs AA not PoPo.

[Anonymous]

A knee to the groin is the best way to address this problem.