Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honesty is the best policy.
Deep down inside she must already know this though.
Am I right?

She doesn't know she has four kids? Why would you need to tell her that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My idiot stepfather married my mo. With 7 kids—although only 5 were still at home. That’s not the reason she’s not getting married.

Yikes!

He must have been around 50 or 60 and she must have been in her 30s.

What the heck makes you say that? The mom had two launched kids who must have been 18 plus. I’m guessing she was at least in her 40’s. And we have no information to determine his age.

[Anonymous]

Is she asking? If not, don't say anything.

[Anonymous]

Has she asked you why you think she’s single?

[Anonymous]

She has 4 kids and hopefully has other priorities than dating; don’t project.

....Now if there’s are multiple dads there are bigger issues. So if you can’t be supportive, be quiet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My idiot stepfather married my mo. With 7 kids—although only 5 were still at home. That’s not the reason she’s not getting married.

Yikes!

He must have been around 50 or 60 and she must have been in her 30s.

they were both in their 30s and the kind of people no one else would marry, so I guess it worked out for them. For the kids—meh, not so much.

[Anonymous]

A single mom with 4 kids doesn't have time to date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A single mom with 4 kids doesn't have time to date.

They might be 12-17 and largely self-sufficient.

[Anonymous]

Yes, be honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not say anything because, well... what is she supposed to do about it? You are stating (what you think is) the obvious.

Plus 1

[Anonymous]

I’m single and I have no kids. So there’s that. Never married.

[Anonymous]

I know a woman with 4 kids who gt remarried to a hot guy. She dedicated herself to being super hot. Got a boob job, bought a bangin' wardrobe, does her hair & make-up at professional quality on a daily basis. Girl looks GOOD. Men wanted her - for sure!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.

Do they know she has 3 kids? Probably not.

Yes she’s very open about it. None have seemed to care. She mostly dates younger guys though. She is 38 and they are 25-30

She must be hot. Guy won’t mind banging a hot MILF, especially if there is no pressure to get serious, married and have kids.

I dated a 30yo when I was 24. He said he hated meeting/dating women in their late 20s and 30s because everyone is on the search for a husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.

Do they know she has 3 kids? Probably not.

Yes she’s very open about it. None have seemed to care. She mostly dates younger guys though. She is 38 and they are 25-30

She must be hot. Guy won’t mind banging a hot MILF, especially if there is no pressure to get serious, married and have kids.

I dated a 30yo when I was 24. He said he hated meeting/dating women in their late 20s and 30s because everyone is on the search for a husband.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A single mom with 4 kids doesn't have time to date.

They might be 12-17 and largely self-sufficient.

Do you have teenagers?

I don't agree that a mom with 4 kids can't date. If it's a priority she can. But I am laughing at the idea that your kids turn 12 and stop being so time consuming.