Think my wife is cheating with a woman?

[Anonymous]

Is your wife not allowed to spend time with friends outside of work hours? I'm not saying there's no affair, anything is possible, but does she not have female friends she hangs out with occasionally on the weekends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

[Anonymous]

OP ignore some of the immature dumb posts. You're a married couple and this is going on all day, and during what should be "family" time. Cheating or not it's a big problem. Not only is it a nuance, it's allowing this person too much access. Also, this is basically someone she doesn't know too well. As in "new friend". Another red flag is why would she befriend someone that is a single woman? Married couples usually stick with married people. I know we do.

Does she show you what they text? Most couple share funny texts or relate what so and so just said. Is she secretive? I would at least have a talk with her about cutting down after you both get home from work. Ask her to show you her texts then go from there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like your intuition is sounding the alarm. Listen to your gut.

We also call it “the sixth sense”. Keep it on.

This is true. The real conundrum is whether you try to spin it into a threesome, which could encourage your wife further. If you don’t, you could miss out on that and your wife could still decide she prefers tacos to sausage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

Actually, yes, I have seen this happen, particularly if the woman in question has been a "rule follower" most of her life and feels the need to explore.

Listen to your gut OP. They may just be friends, but your intuition is warning you your wife may be tempted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

Actually, yes, I have seen this happen, particularly if the woman in question has been a "rule follower" most of her life and feels the need to explore.

Listen to your gut OP. They may just be friends, but your intuition is warning you your wife may be tempted.

I do think this happens, a lot. I know several women who came out later in life after meeting the right person who happened to be a woman this time.

[Anonymous]

Hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

Actually, yes, I have seen this happen, particularly if the woman in question has been a "rule follower" most of her life and feels the need to explore.

Listen to your gut OP. They may just be friends, but your intuition is warning you your wife may be tempted.

Uh, she was homosexual from the get go but dated/married a man because that was the standard norm for "good girls". It's the same thing as a married (to a woman) man who "suddenly" starts to have gay sex.

Heterosexual adults do not suddenly become homosexual and vice versa.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

Actually, yes, I have seen this happen, particularly if the woman in question has been a "rule follower" most of her life and feels the need to explore.

Listen to your gut OP. They may just be friends, but your intuition is warning you your wife may be tempted.

Uh, she was homosexual from the get go but dated/married a man because that was the standard norm for "good girls". It's the same thing as a married (to a woman) man who "suddenly" starts to have gay sex.

Heterosexual adults do not suddenly become homosexual and vice versa.

Yeah well I’m bisexual but have never had a real relationship with a woman so

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me again— could a woman just all of a sudden be into other women?

No.

Just because she wasn't sharing with her DH doesn't mean it's "sudden". Some people also suppress their feelings until they meet someone to whom they are so attracted that they can't ignore it anymore.

[Anonymous]

None of this is helpful to OP.

OP get to the bottom of it. Stop wondering and see what the evidence says, all you need to do.

[Anonymous]

If the woman was not a lesbian would you be concerned about all the late night and early morning texting and spending a lot of time away from work with her? I would because it would be annoying and I would tell me wife that. Having recently transferred the woman may be lonely and has cloned on to your wife. I think the odds of your wife wanting to have a sexual relationship with her are low but not non-existent. I would focus on the too much time/texting issue and not on the lesbian issue unless I had some proof as in sexting.

[Anonymous]

Congratulations. This is better than winning the lottery

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations. This is better than winning the lottery

You missed the part about the wife's friend not being attractive.

But in general I would be totally fine with this set-up. My wife has a girlfriend, they spend time together, she gets her emotional needs met by a woman, they chat and commiserate together, and I get the occasional threesome. A man can dream.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations. This is better than winning the lottery

You missed the part about the wife's friend not being attractive.

But in general I would be totally fine with this set-up. My wife has a girlfriend, they spend time together, she gets her emotional needs met by a woman, they chat and commiserate together, and I get the occasional threesome. A man can dream.

“To dream, the impossible dream ... “