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"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"
PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does. |
Too passive-aggressive for my taste. |
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I would make plans with girlfriends, not another guy.
I also wouldn’t text and ask for a time. Of course I would do that with my husband or a girlfriend, but not with a man who just asked me on a first date. |
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This entirely. My partner has a clear idea of time, but often forgets to tell me. It’s ok to ask. |
Same, although he's fabulous about birthdays and anniversaries. |
It’s different if it’s your husband or long term partner. Assuming that men have the best of intentions, but are just inept, is how women get themselves into trouble. |
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ugh annoying
if you feel confident and willing, message him and just say - hey, did you still want to get together tonight? if you feel like this guy is proving himself not to be as reliable and with-it as you'd want from a partner, just don't message him and take this as the sign that this isn't the guy for you |
| I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer |
Agreed!!! |
I decided to text. He didn't respond. Going out with friends instead. I think in the future I will use your approach. If a guy wants my time he can ask for it properly. |
Welcome to millennial dating world... everything is by text nowadays. |
Damn, what a loser. Next. |
Wow I’m sorry. What a douche. Oh well at least you haven’t invested much and can work on finding someone who deserves you. But I don’t think in general following up for details is desperate or that it means a guy isn’t interested. |
Does his name start with an A and end with an L? If so, he did the same thing to me. LOL |