Do you weigh the same or close to the same as when you got married?
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Anonymous
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I was about 200 when we got married, 180 or so when we met? Maybe 175. Got up to 208 at one point. Down to 193 now. Very happy and proud of it. Hope to get back to 170. But would be ECSTATIC to simply see a 18 or a 17 again one day while healthy.
I have never yo yoed and progress has been slow. What is best of all is that I'm doing it for me, not because my DH cares a single bit! |
Anonymous
| I weighed about 115 when we met, 105 when we got married, and about 125 now but have a 7 month old and am slowly losing about a pound every two weeks. |
Anonymous
| I’m around a size up to a 14 and don’t care. I was about a 12 when we got married 20 years ago. At one point I was down to a size 6 but that took a lot of time and effort and I’m comfortable where I am. I don’t care about my weight and either does DH. We have two kids and a lot of other things to worry about. We worry more about being overall healthy. |
Anonymous
| 10 years married, 10 pounds down. |
Anonymous
| Between 110-115 when we got married 10 years ago. 110 when we met.Now between 116-119. 2 kids late. It does make a difference on a 5’1” frame. He has gained a ton more weight, working on losing it. |
Anonymous
| Married 15 years, 2 kids, up 8 lbs. Work out like a fiend - menopause is a bear... |
Anonymous
| I weigh more but I needed to gain more. I weighed about 94 lbs on my wedding day. (I'm 5'1 so it's not as shocking as it sounds.) I am about 102 now and have been for years and this is a much better weight. Took having the second kid and picking up weight lifting to put on some much needed mass. |
Anonymous
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I don’t- I’ve gained about 15-20 pounds.
I lose and and gain it every few months. I’ve had 3 kids, two of them back to back which was difficult to lose each time bc I was older. I lost 17 pounds last summer doing low carb, the. It took about 6 months to gain it all back and now I am having trouble losing again (all my own problem, I have lost my will power!) |
Anonymous
| Yes, marrieded 25 years and I am close to my wedding weight.. But that doesn’t mean that I am skinny. |
Anonymous
| I have been married 18 years and have two kids (teens). Weighed 115 when I got married and weigh 130 now. However, I did not exercise when I was younger and I exercise now. That, plus vanity sizing means I was a 6 when I got married, but now I am a 2 or 4P. |
Anonymous
| Up 7 lb after 2 kids and 23 years of marriage. I’m okay with it. |
Anonymous
This is me, exactly. Been married 19 years, 2 kids. |
Anonymous
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Been married 8 years; I’m close enough to my wedding weight that I can wear most (but not all) of the clothes I wore at that time. So I’d guess I’m within 5-10 lbs. I’m 5’9”, so weight gain or loss doesn’t show on me as much.
By the way - only the upper middle class and wealthier can generally say they wear the same size as they did when they were married. I’m in a Facebook group with other people who got married the same month and year I did, many of them really struggle financially (like utilities shut off, credit cards in collections, etc.) and they are ... not the same size/weight they were when they got married. |
Anonymous
| less |
Anonymous
| I'm up about 50 lbs from when we met but I still s*** that d*** so I still have a happy husband. |