How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Another never here. Together 18 years, married for 13. I’ve never done that to him, either.

Same time frame and never.

[Anonymous]

I can see this happening if there is a lot of built of resentment. Are you on medication but are not taking it regularly? Are you withholding sex? Do you expect your spouse to be a solo parent? Because you can't know what's happening inside your spouse, look within

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can see this happening if there is a lot of built of resentment. Are you on medication but are not taking it regularly? Are you withholding sex? Do you expect your spouse to be a solo parent? Because you can't know what's happening inside your spouse, look within

Ah, the old “what did you do” response.

[Anonymous]

Frequently, which is why we are separated and divorcing.

I didn't want my daughter to think it was okay to be treated like that, and I didn't want my son to think it was okay to treat a woman like that. So I left.

I suggest you do the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not one time in 27 years.

+1 never in 26 years.

[Anonymous]

Once in 8 years.

[Anonymous]

Never. Together 30 yrs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Frequently, which is why we are separated and divorcing.

I didn't want my daughter to think it was okay to be treated like that, and I didn't want my son to think it was okay to treat a woman like that. So I left.

I suggest you do the same.

Same here.

[Anonymous]

Never ever.

[Anonymous]

He does curse a lot when we argue, but he doesn't call me names. I don't think name calling and cursing is an instant reason for divorce but I can certainly see it chipping away at the trust and respect over time.

[Anonymous]

He literally never has.

[Anonymous]

Never. Ever. Nor do I do it to him.

[Anonymous]

I cuss like a sailor sometimes and so does my husband outside of work. We NEVER have cussed at each other or called each other names.

[Anonymous]

Never. Maybe she's said WTF about something I did. This may've happened at some point. But curse at me? No.

[Anonymous]

Never, and I've never done it to him.