How often do you have contact with your FWB?
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Anonymous
OP. He’s 30 so I suspect he probably found someone else who wants a LTR but is keeping me around in case it doesn’t work out. I’ll start looking elsewhere  . We have a standing “date” every week and I want to keep it for now but I won’t be texting him anymore than necessary.
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Anonymous
If you want to stir up the sparks again, take a week or two off from seeing him. These no strings attached arrangements are obviously not long term and they do eventually end. But a little break from each will probably have him missing you. Just say "Something has come up suddenly and I can't see you tomorrow night as planned." |
Anonymous
I will. Maybe it needs to end anyway since it doesn’t feel so good anymore for me. I feel ignored since we don’t talk/text like we use to. I guess I set up the parameters incorrectly for a FWB relationship but going from texting everyday to nearly nothing and one word responses makes me feel like crap. The quality of our conversations have taken a nose dive from fun and witty to sexting mostly to nearly nothing now. The sex is still great but as pps out, I am probably too vested in this relationship for a FWB. Better to stop now and start over with someone else. |
Anonymous
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When it first started I would see him 1-2x a month and would text to make arrangements to meet up. Then it became 1-2x a week and texting daily. Then we started doing more like having meals and going to the movies. He wanted to get more serious and I told him I was happy with the status quo.
I can't even commit to having a plant much less a relationship. He got mad and told me if there came a point where I wanted more than his dick to give him a call. I sent him 2 messages and he has not responded. I don't understand where it went so wrong. Most men would have loved to been in his shoes. I never made demands of him or expected any sort of commitment. I did not get upset if something came up and he had to cancel. I enjoyed what we had for what it was. He won't even speak to me now. |
Anonymous
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OP. I am going to meet three different guys for coffee next week instead of seeing my FWB on Sunday. Not exactly difficult to meet men who want a NSA relationship.
My FWB texted me earlier today that we will talk after he got some work done but I haven’t heard anything from him since. The lackadaisical texting and responses started a few weeks ago when he texted me at 4 AM that he likes me. Later I joked he must have drunk texted me that message. Or maybe he is just tired of me and don’t care. Last week when I was suppose to come over, he fell asleep and I couldn’t get into his apartment building and left. I was pissed and left him a text saying it was over but when he woke up, he called and texted me apologizing and I went back to his place. I give up. Not worth the drama for a FWB. |
Anonymous
What app did you use to meet 3 guys for coffee? |
Anonymous
| My husband and his FWB text every day. But, sometimes just a hi how are you doing text and that's it. See each other every few weeks. And no, our marriage isn't falling apart. |
Anonymous
Why do you let him have an fwb? |
Anonymous
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do you use condoms?
do you have anal? do you make out? |
Anonymous
I am sure since they arent married. |
Anonymous
Tinder. Took about an hour for matching and texting to coffee for all three. They are cute.
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Anonymous
What the set them apart onTinder? |
Anonymous
OP. I like how they look in their pictures. |
Anonymous
Just want some protips, about to setul an account. Were the pictures full body at all? |
Anonymous
Full body wearing clothes. Pic of face. They all had pics of their dog. LOL! Pretty standard. You don’t have to be fancy. Women just want to see how you look like. |