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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did this start off as a friendship between the two of you which evolved into a sexual FWB relationship?  Or is this a guy that you got together with because you were attracted to him.

Were you in the habit of texting him to talk to him before this FWB arrangement happened?[/quote]

We were never friends and met through a dating app.  I am divorced with a child and he is single, never married and I was very specific that I was looking for a FWB not a LTR.  I stay over his place one night a week and met some of his friends.  He has not met any of mine or my child and I plan on keeping it that way.  I guess I cannot blame him for wanting more distance and keeping our relationship more FWB and less like dating which as I am writing this sounds like what it is turning into.[/quote]

You've been seeing him once a week with no strings attached.  Not sure how old this guy is but if he is free to look elsewhere during the rest of the week, he probably is.

If the spark between you has started to fizzle, maybe stop texting him for awhile or even take a week or two off from him.  [/quote]

OP. He’s 30 so I suspect he probably found someone else who wants a LTR but is keeping me around in case it doesn’t work out.  I’ll start looking elsewhere:). We have a standing “date” every week and I want to keep it for now but I won’t be texting him anymore than necessary.[/quote]

If you want to stir up the sparks again, take a week or two off from seeing him.  These no strings attached arrangements are obviously not long term and they do eventually end.  But a little break from each will probably have him missing you.  Just say "Something has come up suddenly and I can't see you tomorrow night as planned."[/quote]

I will.  Maybe it needs to end anyway since it doesn’t feel so good anymore for me.  I feel ignored since we don’t talk/text like we use to.  I guess I set up the parameters incorrectly for a FWB relationship but going from texting everyday to nearly nothing and one word responses makes me feel like crap.  The quality of our conversations have taken a nose dive from fun and witty to sexting mostly to nearly nothing now.  The sex is still great but as pps out, I am probably too vested in this relationship for a FWB.  Better to stop now and start over with someone else.[/quote]

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