How often do you have contact with your FWB?

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Anonymous wrote:OP. We talk about what we are going to do when we meet mostly not anything deep. Thanks for letting me know that most FWB don’t talk every day. We like each other well enough for sex. We are both single and he is not someone I’ll have a LTR with for many reasons.

well, something goes deep when you two see each other.

That’s the whole point, isn’t it. LOL! He’s been very busy with a big project he tells me but the anticipation is part of the fun.

If big project means other women, yeah, you’re right.

OP. Big project means big project. I know where he works, etc.

Let it go.

[Anonymous]

OP Follow up. So I met two of the guys I got matched with on Tinder and cancelled the third. I wasn’t attracted to either guy but they started texting me all.the.time. and I had to tell them to stop. I am not interested.

My told my FWB that I was mad at him for neglecting me so he started texting me constantly which got annoying. He had no idea I was “upset” with him so he is trying to make it up to me but I don’t particularly care anymore about texting. I prefer the quiet now. We are going back to our regularly scheduled time together without texting every day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Follow up. So I met two of the guys I got matched with on Tinder and cancelled the third. I wasn’t attracted to either guy but they started texting me all.the.time. and I had to tell them to stop. I am not interested.

My told my FWB that I was mad at him for neglecting me so he started texting me constantly which got annoying. He had no idea I was “upset” with him so he is trying to make it up to me but I don’t particularly care anymore about texting. I prefer the quiet now. We are going back to our regularly scheduled time together without texting every day.

Op, he over did it with the comms and the other 2 dudes probably were in awe of your smarts/beauty

Any chance, you can describe how you look? We all can imagine the person who this interesting story is coming from?

I was PP that took your advice, posted a full body picture and got alot of attention.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Follow up. So I met two of the guys I got matched with on Tinder and cancelled the third. I wasn’t attracted to either guy but they started texting me all.the.time. and I had to tell them to stop. I am not interested.

My told my FWB that I was mad at him for neglecting me so he started texting me constantly which got annoying. He had no idea I was “upset” with him so he is trying to make it up to me but I don’t particularly care anymore about texting. I prefer the quiet now. We are going back to our regularly scheduled time together without texting every day.

Op, he over did it with the comms and the other 2 dudes probably were in awe of your smarts/beauty

Any chance, you can describe how you look? We all can imagine the person who this interesting story is coming from?

I was PP that took your advice, posted a full body picture and got alot of attention.

I am short, old, not fat and not skinny. I am “very pretty,” “beautiful” and “fantastic” according to my FWB trying to make amends. FWB is an artist. I like creative types. Also for all those on DCUM who think blonds have more fun, I am a brunette.

Have fun, dude!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP. I am going to meet three different guys for coffee next week instead of seeing my FWB on Sunday. Not exactly difficult to meet men who want a NSA relationship.

My FWB texted me earlier today that we will talk after he got some work done but I haven’t heard anything from him since. The lackadaisical texting and responses started a few weeks ago when he texted me at 4 AM that he likes me. Later I joked he must have drunk texted me that message.

Or maybe he is just tired of me and don’t care. Last week when I was suppose to come over, he fell asleep and I couldn’t get into his apartment building and left. I was pissed and left him a text saying it was over but when he woke up, he called and texted me apologizing and I went back to his place. I give up. Not worth the drama for a FWB.

What app did you use to meet 3 guys for coffee?

Tinder. Took about an hour for matching and texting to coffee for all three. They are cute.

Do you talk to them on the phone before you meet them for coffee?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP. I am going to meet three different guys for coffee next week instead of seeing my FWB on Sunday. Not exactly difficult to meet men who want a NSA relationship.

My FWB texted me earlier today that we will talk after he got some work done but I haven’t heard anything from him since. The lackadaisical texting and responses started a few weeks ago when he texted me at 4 AM that he likes me. Later I joked he must have drunk texted me that message.

Or maybe he is just tired of me and don’t care. Last week when I was suppose to come over, he fell asleep and I couldn’t get into his apartment building and left. I was pissed and left him a text saying it was over but when he woke up, he called and texted me apologizing and I went back to his place. I give up. Not worth the drama for a FWB.

What app did you use to meet 3 guys for coffee?

Tinder. Took about an hour for matching and texting to coffee for all three. They are cute.

Do you talk to them on the phone before you meet them for coffee?

Yes. Video chat because I want to make sure they look like their picture. I also get their full name and address.