Oh Good God, Relax people. She was trying to bring comfort to her boyfriend not cross some huge personal boundary. Do you ask your SO's if it's okay to hug them, or kiss them before you do that too?? |
| First of all, he’s full of shit. He can put lotion on. Second, he sounds like an asshole. |
No, but I DO ask before putting something on them. And ESPECIALLY when in the hospital. |
| Are you guys teenagers? |
| You both are off your rockers. |
| I'm sorry, this isn't Ask Cosmo. |
| I would think it was totally f’ing weird if someone (Evan my spouse) just started rubbing lotion on me. Creep. |
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I'm guessing you guys are like 17....
He's just had surgery, is hopped up on meds, and is in a lot of pain. He's not going to act normally. You really need to grow up. Was he a jerk? Sure but unless he's always like this , he needs a pass. I know you're young, but you just need to mature a little bit instead of crying and storming out |
| I’ve been happily married 14 years. It would be really weird if my husband rubbed me with lotion without saying anything to me first. WTH? |
| He sounds like an A-hole. I'll bet if you were rubbing lotion on his D he wouldn't have complained. |
2 years and have you met his parents? Now is the time. As for the lotion - doubt it will affect his "good leg" which doesn't need to heal anything. He overreacted but clearly is in a bad mood about something and should apologize for yelling and cursing. You should said, Yes I'll ask first before rubbing lotion on ppl. (which sounds hilarious to say out loud). If he can't apologize, end it. |
| When I saw the taking the lotion out of the purse I thought this story was going to go in a totally different direction. |
Same. I thought she was going to give him a rub down.
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If he had been less snappy, maybe he could have moved it in that direction, who knows. |
There is no reason this post is worthy of a 2nd page of commentary. You all must be bored (like me )
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