Would you marry your spouse if you met him/her today?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never. He's an empty shell of the man I married. There were some minor signs I should have noticed early on. His personality now isn't completely different from when I met him, but it's as though all the bad has become exponentially increased and the good has all but disappeared. He's like Corey Feldman circa 1989 vs now.

You never really know someone when you marry them. You see the ugly underbelly later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you mean knowing what I know now.... Not a chance.

Knowing what I know now, hell yeah. I'd do a lot of things differently if I could do it over, but definitely with her.

[Anonymous]

NOT in a million years.

[Anonymous]

First DH -- no.

Remarried and this time, oh yes.

[Anonymous]

I got so lucky with my DH. We got engaged after 3 months and we have turned out better than my wildest dreams. So compatible.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't think so. He has many good qualities, and is a good father, but his extreme argumentativeness has gotten worse with age.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely and I'd be a lucky gal, which I didn't realize for a long time.

[Anonymous]

YES!!!! No question.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't think so. The first ten years were great, our kids are great, but our relationship has been getting worse and worse for the last ten years. Now we barely tolerate each other.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but he would be way out of my league now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you mean knowing what I know now.... Not a chance.

Knowing what I know now, hell yeah. I'd do a lot of things differently if I could do it over, but definitely with her.

it sounds like you married a good person and have accepted everything she is. I envy you more than you can imagine, cherish her for as long as you live.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Probably not. I was way too focused on superficial things at the time. I was impressed with his looks, charisma, job etc. He dressed well and looked the part.

Now I just want someone who can make me laugh and is interested in being my friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably not. I was way too focused on superficial things at the time. I was impressed with his looks, charisma, job etc. He dressed well and looked the part.

Now I just want someone who can make me laugh and is interested in being my friend.

^forgot to add that if I married someone who made me laugh and was interested in being my friend I'd probably be posting on here about how my husband doesn't make enough money and is lazy. Or something similar to the posts by many women.

[Anonymous]

Yes, absolutely.