He "trapped" her in a pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She had unprotected sex. It's her fault.

You're joking right?

I don't necessarily agree that birth control falls to the women. But control over my body falls on me. If I want to make sure I don't get pregnant and I'm having sex, I take the necessary precautions. This isn't something to rely on someone else for.

+100

[Anonymous]

And yet, in other threads, people have suggested a woman trick her husband into thinking she's been taking birth control when she hasn't, because she wants a baby and he doesn't.

Hypocrites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She had unprotected sex. It's her fault.

You're joking right?

Why would this be a joke. Leaving stupid anecdotes aside, the pull out method is a terrible method of birth control.

Repeated unprotected sex = babies. It's sort of how it works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your friend's particular situation but reproductive coercion is a definite thing that happens in abusive relationships.

http://www.acog.org/Resources-And-Publications/Committee-Opinions/Committee-on-Health-Care-for-Underserved-Women/Reproductive-and-Sexual-Coercion

This. Your friend is in an abusive relationship, and she may not have seen it, until now. Give her the number of the National Domestic Violence Hotline and suggest she call them. 1-800-799-SAFE They have a few articles about this on their website, thehotline.org

http://www.thehotline.org/2013/07/from-broken-condoms-to-pill-tampering-the-realities-of-reproductive-coercion/

http://www.thehotline.org/2011/02/1-in-4-callers-surveyed-at-the-hotline-report-birth-control-sabotage-and-pregnancy-coercion/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Very possible. DH and I have used the pull out method for nearly ten years successfully. He slipped up once and I did get pregnant, but I was okay with it. However I also know he really wanted a baby and he's kind of admitted to doing it on purpose. Your friend could have also tried using the morning after pill.

Whoa that is messed up

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your friend's particular situation but reproductive coercion is a definite thing that happens in abusive relationships.

http://www.acog.org/Resources-And-Publications/Committee-Opinions/Committee-on-Health-Care-for-Underserved-Women/Reproductive-and-Sexual-Coercion

So when a woman traps a guy it's abusive. Good to know!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And yet, in other threads, people have suggested a woman trick her husband into thinking she's been taking birth control when she hasn't, because she wants a baby and he doesn't.

Hypocrites.

It's wrong in both cases. If you deceive someone, lead them to believe you are using birth control and then don't, it's wrong. It doesn't matter if it is a woman or a man doing it.

That said, if you absolutely don't want to get pregnant (if you are a woman) or you don't want to get someone pregnant (if you are a man), it's a good idea to take matters into your own hands, no matter what the other person says and either get on birth control or wear a condom or insist your partner wear a condom (that you watch him open and put on).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your friend's particular situation but reproductive coercion is a definite thing that happens in abusive relationships.

http://www.acog.org/Resources-And-Publications/Committee-Opinions/Committee-on-Health-Care-for-Underserved-Women/Reproductive-and-Sexual-Coercion

Yeah, it goes like this:

MAN: Are you on birth control?

WOMAN: Yes!

MAN: splooge

WOMAN: I'm pregnant!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And yet, in other threads, people have suggested a woman trick her husband into thinking she's been taking birth control when she hasn't, because she wants a baby and he doesn't.

Hypocrites.

You must be new here, this place is full of hypocrites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And yet, in other threads, people have suggested a woman trick her husband into thinking she's been taking birth control when she hasn't, because she wants a baby and he doesn't.

Hypocrites.

You must be new here, this place is full of hypocrites.

You may have seen it. But it is stupid advice. Most people would call that out. The ones who suggest it are trolls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And yet, in other threads, people have suggested a woman trick her husband into thinking she's been taking birth control when she hasn't, because she wants a baby and he doesn't.

Hypocrites.

Almost certainly not the same people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend is blaming a guy for her pregnancy stating he didn't pull out in time and wanted to get her pregnant.

They were using the pull out method and she insists it's reliable for her.

How is it possible that he trapped her?

You should stop being friends with morons.

She is not trapped. She could have an abortion. She could reliquinsh her rights to him and the list goes on and on.

Pull-out isn't a 100% and shouldn't be used unless you are in a situation where you can deal with a pregnancy. Never mind STIs/STDs. I doubt your friend tests or requires her partners to.

It's pretty lucky sh

[Anonymous]

Hmm- a woman can: 1: far more easily lie about being on birth control (iud/pill) or the timing of their cycle, 2: use a morning after pill or get an abortion regardless of the guy's feelings on the matter (or contrarily refuse to do so and demand child support), 3: fail to disclose a pregnancy and raise the child solo or give it up for adoption....somehow I'm not feeling a whole lot of sympathy for your friend (female here by the way)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend is blaming a guy for her pregnancy stating he didn't pull out in time and wanted to get her pregnant.

They were using the pull out method and she insists it's reliable for her.

How is it possible that he trapped her?

Your friend is stupid and has the mentality of a 12 yr old. Im actually perturbed she will be procreating, and passing her stupidity on to progeny.

[Anonymous]

This is Exhibit A for dsygenic fertility patterns.