Closing the barn door after the horse! (condom related)

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thank you for all the quick and helpful replies. I plan on bringing my own condoms, and have no interest in a relationship or having a child (!) by this man. I am just looking to enjoy myself, responsibly this time!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the quick and helpful replies. I plan on bringing my own condoms, and have no interest in a relationship or having a child (!) by this man. I am just looking to enjoy myself, responsibly this time!

Since you don't know him from jack, it's not responsible fyi.

[Anonymous]

Is this guy married OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this guy married OP?

What should OP care? That guy is making his own choices. It's not like she's forcing him to hook up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A man here. Very sad. OP, you sound desperate. If you can't ask for what you want, then you're pathetic.

NP. How about it's sad that the man doesn't just have condoms and use them automatically without having to be asked?

Exactly. Not only that, but it shows this guy has been sleeping all over the place without using them. OP shouldn't sleep with him since he could have a STD that even he doesn't know about....yet. Not bright at all - both.

[Anonymous]

OP - so there's no actual horse in this thread? The title is very confusing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - so there's no actual horse in this thread? The title is very confusing.

The guy she slept with was probably hung like a horse. Does that count? Why do you think she wants to see him again?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this guy married OP?

What should OP care? That guy is making his own choices. It's not like she's forcing him to hook up.

She should care because that makes her just as guilty, and could invite a lot of trouble.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the quick and helpful replies. I plan on bringing my own condoms, and have no interest in a relationship or having a child (!) by this man. I am just looking to enjoy myself, responsibly this time!

So you're on the pill too? Condoms break...just saying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this guy married OP?

What should OP care? That guy is making his own choices. It's not like she's forcing him to hook up.

She should care because that makes her just as guilty, and could invite a lot of trouble.

"Just as guilty"? How so? What relationship/agreement/trust/legal union is she breaking?

But yeah I guess there could be trouble if her hook up is married to some pyscho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this guy married OP?

What should OP care? That guy is making his own choices. It's not like she's forcing him to hook up.

She should care because that makes her just as guilty, and could invite a lot of trouble.

"Just as guilty"? How so? What relationship/agreement/trust/legal union is she breaking?

But yeah I guess there could be trouble if her hook up is married to some pyscho.

Geese if someone has to spell it out....apparently you need to raise the bar in the morals and ethics dept. lol

[Anonymous]

Hopefully OP's condom boy isn't married. Reminds me of the Emmett Corrigan and Kandi Hall story that I recently saw on dateline. His wife ended up doing really well, didn't have to fight about child support or visitation. A nice ending considering it started with cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this guy married OP?

What should OP care? That guy is making his own choices. It's not like she's forcing him to hook up.

She should care because that makes her just as guilty, and could invite a lot of trouble.

"Just as guilty"? How so? What relationship/agreement/trust/legal union is she breaking?

But yeah I guess there could be trouble if her hook up is married to some pyscho.

Geese if someone has to spell it out....apparently you need to raise the bar in the morals and ethics dept. lol

Watch the fowl talk.

Seriously - "just as guilty"? You sound like you like to blame "the other woman" more than the actual guilty party (cheating spouse).

[Anonymous]

OP, who cares what he thinks - its a one night stand, and its your body, so you can set the boundaries and he can agree or not.

[Anonymous]

Re: "angling for oral sex", PP, you realize that unprotected oral sex can also lead to STIs, namely herpes? That HSV-1 can transmit via the oral-genital route and lead to a lifelong infection?

If a guy isn't smart enough to protect himself, much less kind enough to protect you, then he's not worth fooling around with in any capacity.