Where does a young single early 30's woman meet guys if she's shy?

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Anonymous wrote:A little Shyness is a personality trait - nothing that requires therapy - good grief!!

Unless you're in your thirties and stressing about meeting people. If it's a hindrance to her happiness she should address it.

It's only about meeting a significant other. I have tried online dating but 95 percent of the guys are the same as in person. They just want to sleep with me! I don't dress in a provocative way either and I'm friendly with everyone I meet. I don't think the problem is me but maybe the type of people I attract. I notice that the women who are in relationships easier and faster are the types to be more open sexually and who are aggressive or just very loud and outgoing. I'm not though. In other areas of life, like for business, I am very aggressive and a natural people person. I get along with about all types I meet. So is this therapist a dating coach? or maybe I should just try my luck in another country.

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04/10/2015 21:46

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Oh, no! People want to have sex with me! Sounds awful.

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04/10/2015 22:14

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A little Shyness is a personality trait - nothing that requires therapy - good grief!!

Unless you're in your thirties and stressing about meeting people. If it's a hindrance to her happiness she should address it.

It's only about meeting a significant other. I have tried online dating but 95 percent of the guys are the same as in person. They just want to sleep with me! I don't dress in a provocative way either and I'm friendly with everyone I meet. I don't think the problem is me but maybe the type of people I attract. I notice that the women who are in relationships easier and faster are the types to be more open sexually and who are aggressive or just very loud and outgoing. I'm not though. In other areas of life, like for business, I am very aggressive and a natural people person. I get along with about all types I meet. So is this therapist a dating coach? or maybe I should just try my luck in another country.

I really must be in the minority because I feel it takes A LOT OF TIME before sex should be considered in a relationship.

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04/10/2015 22:17

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I get it OP. Guys, especially in a town like DC, are pretty aggressive. Just try finding the online profiles of the guys who have a better chance of being the nice guys. They are out there. Look to the geeky types, etc.

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04/11/2015 00:48

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A little Shyness is a personality trait - nothing that requires therapy - good grief!!

Unless you're in your thirties and stressing about meeting people. If it's a hindrance to her happiness she should address it.

It's only about meeting a significant other. I have tried online dating but 95 percent of the guys are the same as in person. They just want to sleep with me! I don't dress in a provocative way either and I'm friendly with everyone I meet. I don't think the problem is me but maybe the type of people I attract. I notice that the women who are in relationships easier and faster are the types to be more open sexually and who are aggressive or just very loud and outgoing. I'm not though. In other areas of life, like for business, I am very aggressive and a natural people person. I get along with about all types I meet. So is this therapist a dating coach? or maybe I should just try my luck in another country.

I didn't think so before but now I do think a trip to the therapist would be beneficial.

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04/11/2015 03:33

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I didn't think so before but now I do think a trip to the therapist would be beneficial.

Lot of pill poppers on here making suggestions.