I want to go to a hotel tonight, ALONE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

[Anonymous]

I totally understand this. I have always liked my solitude, and as a married woman with two children, solitude is a rare occurrence. My friends have always had to drag me to do things, I rather have a nice dinner with 1-4 friends than a loud bar night. In college sometimes I would go to the movies alone, just to escape the never ending noise of my 4 roommate household. When I told my husband about that, he was flabbergasted: "Didn't you feel like a looser alone at the movies?." Nope, it felt wonderful, just perfect LOL

[Anonymous]

I love going to movies by myself! Especially kind of silly movies. Can't wait for that Insurgent movie to come out to go enjoy alone.

[Anonymous]

Hotels scare me. I worry about bed bugs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

Order room service and, if you like what you see, have him come back after his shift...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm tired. I can't sleep well next to my spouse and I have to wake early because of kids. I want to be left alone. I want to order take out of whatever sort I want, and get a bottle of wine, and curl up on a comfy bed and watch an overpriced movie on pay per view. I want to wake up whenever I get around to it, then go have a warm breakfast that involves things like runny yolks and hollandaise sauce. I want to get AWAY.

Super selfish? Reasonable? I'm just so tired and can't stand the idea of another night next to my loud, sleep-destroying spouse.

I live this every single day at home and I LOVE it ! My husband never wakes me up even if I sleep until the afternoon.

[Anonymous]

What about sleeping on the couch periodically? Ladies we really need to do something about this snoring thing. A doctor thought I had narcolepsy due to my daytime tiredness. I think it's just my husbands snoring. Drives me crazy. Starting a new thread in health right now.

[Anonymous]

Separate bedrooms. Saved my sanity.

Good luck.

[Anonymous]

do it!

[Anonymous]

Ritz Carlton for me, with an outdoor pool so I can swim under the stars and the moonlight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

We have an 4 young kids including triplets. my DW's BD last year I booked her a hotel room and a day spa package for the next day. Didn't ask her, just told her after it was done and paid for with no refund possible. Got a baby sitter, took her to dinner and then plan was to just drop her at hotel w a goodnight kiss. But, she asked me to come upstairs lol. I gave (and got) some good lovin and went home. Picked her up around 2 the next day. She loved it but never would have asked for it or planned something like that for herself. She is awesome and deserved it

[Anonymous]

My DH snores like a maniac. It had gotten to the point that I was waiting till he fell asleep then I would just go lay on the couch. I understand know why husbands and wives used to have separate sleeping quarters. My DH finally did a sleep study and got a c-pap which does help a lot. I found myself fantasizing about the exact same thing OP. I still might do it one day soon.

[Anonymous]

For the noise, if you aren't doing this already, have a fan on the night stand next to you going. Find a nice and loud one. Or buy a white noise machine.

[Anonymous]

Mayflower or the Mandarien?
Got any spg points? Westins are great. And if you tell a women check-in person this I'm pretty sure they'll hook you up at any hotel in the world.