It may not be an obligation but it is likely an e x p e c t a t i o n. Awkward. |
Exactly. What's the big deal?! Enjoy the evening and be yourself. |
True. He may likely expect, but he chose the expensive locale. She's the one feeling awkward -- precisely by your logic above.
How exactly do you accept a dinner date and denote, hey spend some cash on this date tonight, sounds really nice, doesn't mean I am a prostitute and your getting sex by default of your expensive date choices. |
Well, since I'm quirky like that, I would've told him right away that this didn't mean I was going to sleep with him. |
Really OP? What about 700? 800? 900? See where this is going? |
Guys pretty much expect sex by date three whether it's Charlie Palmers or Chipotle. |
No ![]() |
Name your price! |
Priceline Negotiator! |
you couldn't afford it |
Maybe he will get you a car for your birthday, a condo for Christmas and a house next Valentine's Day. Something's wrong here. |
so you have a price... i thought so. |
Would make me massively uncomfortable if a guy I never even kissed spent that kind of money on me. This is for important people, and I don't want to be THAT important to anyone I barely know. I would also feel that he has a lot of expectations riding on it. |
Not PP you quoted but this says a lot about your outlook. |
Yup. 'cept mine is not monetary ![]() |