Boyfriend doesn't like that I make more money that him..

[Anonymous]

In my defense I am 23 and don't have much dating experience and he is 30. He didnt act like this until a month ago. He was a little needy but besides that he has been really good to me. It's like this other side came out of nowhere. I keep wondering if maybe something is wrong and he will go back to his " normal" self? I've read, from a psychologist, that if a person is nice in the beginning and then sudden changes into a less nice person, that is their true colors. The nice guy act was only to get me. He could only hide his true colors for a little. Is that even true?

[Anonymous]

Not sure if that is true or not but it doesn't matter. You are so young, so much time, so many good prospects that you should dtmfa.

[Anonymous]

Run!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my defense I am 23 and don't have much dating experience and he is 30. He didnt act like this until a month ago. He was a little needy but besides that he has been really good to me. It's like this other side came out of nowhere. I keep wondering if maybe something is wrong and he will go back to his " normal" self? I've read, from a psychologist, that if a person is nice in the beginning and then sudden changes into a less nice person, that is their true colors. The nice guy act was only to get me. He could only hide his true colors for a little. Is that even true?

Yes this is ABSOLUTELY true. True love develops over months/years as people demonstrating who they really are as they are presented with different circumstances. The first few months are just lust.

Get out now or prepare yourself for a lifetime of psychological abuse b

[Anonymous]

Show your post to one of your friends and ask her what she thinks. You don't even have to admit it's you.

DTMF.

[Anonymous]

Is this the cop? Or are you the OP whose guy broke up with her when confronted (if so I assume you've reconciled, ugh).

[Anonymous]

You can't be serious! What are you waiting for? Until he starts physical??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my defense I am 23 and don't have much dating experience and he is 30. He didnt act like this until a month ago. He was a little needy but besides that he has been really good to me. It's like this other side came out of nowhere. I keep wondering if maybe something is wrong and he will go back to his " normal" self? I've read, from a psychologist, that if a person is nice in the beginning and then sudden changes into a less nice person, that is their true colors. The nice guy act was only to get me. He could only hide his true colors for a little. Is that even true?

Don't stand behind age as an excuse. You're old enough to know in your gut that this is so wrong. He's preying on your "innocence". Get out now

[Anonymous]

Can you put both your savings into a joint account? That might help.

[Anonymous]

I feel sad for girls like you. Please look into why you have such low self esteem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can you put both your savings into a joint account? That might help.

No,no,no, don't do that. Money is NOT the problem. He is! Now run!

[Anonymous]

I wish my wife made more money than me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish my wife made more money than me.

+1 same here brother.

[Anonymous]

Tell him to make more money and he'll feel better about himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my defense I am 23 and don't have much dating experience and he is 30. He didnt act like this until a month ago. He was a little needy but besides that he has been really good to me. It's like this other side came out of nowhere. I keep wondering if maybe something is wrong and he will go back to his " normal" self? I've read, from a psychologist, that if a person is nice in the beginning and then sudden changes into a less nice person, that is their true colors. The nice guy act was only to get me. He could only hide his true colors for a little. Is that even true?

Yes. Run OP - as fast and far as you can. PLEASE! Don't be a statistic. If a man loves you, he will want what's best for *you*, and support you in your dreams.