How Do White Men Feel About Black Women?

[Anonymous]

I'm a gay white man, so you may not have been looking for my opinion....

there is a black woman at my gym with beautiful muscles and sometimes I stare a bit without realizing. When I watch dance performances (like Alvin Ailey) my eye is more drawn to the black women than the white women.

[Anonymous]

as a white man, black women I am attracted to are very rare. Kind of too bad too, because professional black women have much better personalities than white women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:as a white man, black women I am attracted to are very rare. Kind of too bad too, because professional black women have much better personalities than white women.

Really? How do they have better personalities?


Also, what kind of black women are you attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Most are just not attractive, sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH thinks that most Black women carry knives. He doesn't want to get cut, so he has always avoided contact as much as possible.

May I ask what your DH thinks about Asian and Latina ladies

He seems to be neutral about Asian ladies, and he thinks that Latina ladies are loud.

[Anonymous]

Why are you all acting like white women don't wear weaves and wigs? Oh excuse me, you use the term extensions. I learned how to put in clip in extensions from white women on youtube.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm your mirror: a white man who finds black women compelling. Also attracted to most women of color. White women, really, not so much.

I'm low-maintenance, though, and like fairly low maintenance. A high-maintenance woman of any color wouldn't do it for me.

[Anonymous]

Many, many professional, educated white women are cold, unfriendly, vapid and devious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many, many professional, educated white women are cold, unfriendly, vapid and devious.

And how do professional black women (and women of other colors) act?

[Anonymous]

I'm a white woman, and I carry knives.

[Anonymous]

Some of my white guy friends prefer a darker-skinned woman (middle eastern, black, or hispanic/asian), and some of my white guy friends are perfectly happy to date a woman of any race as long as there's compatibility and chemistry.

Other white guy friends generally date white chicks. Which I can understand - I'm primarily attracted to white guys, though I do find obviously attractive black guys attractive. (like Taye Diggs- swoon.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most are just not attractive, sorry.

I think the same about white women, sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most I don't find attractive, sorry.

Fixed that for you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so you can only speak for yourself. I'm not generally attracted to white men, but that's completely different than saying "most are not attractive".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that men tend to believe black women are high maintenance. i.e.: won't go swimming, preoccupied with their hair, etc.

You would need to find one that has a high maintenance mother, then they would be used to it.

I am not high maintenance (white), and DHs mom is a farm girl. I am anything but, however not by any means high maintenance. i.e.: I shower every day, his mother did not believe in it.

ITA that most white men with money would not pay for the weaves or hair extensions or hair maintenance.

I don't think you know very many white men with money. They'll certainly pay for boob jobs, botox, gym membership and lipo, why not weaves or extensions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most are just not attractive, sorry.

The average white woman doesn't look much better than the average black woman--granted that neither is morbidly obese.