You finding a lot of average to above-average white women in Appalachia and the Ozarks? On the other hand, this makes me wonder about Ukrainian women. They seem to have a lot of beauties. I don't know that they have a lot of money and leisure time, relative to your average U.S. city dweller. |
Supply-demand dictates why EE women dedicate themselves to trying to look pretty. There are a lot more women than men as EE men are either dead, dying, or undesirable in large numbers. This imbalance forces women to step their game up if they want a man because they have compete with so many other women. Furthermore, because they aren't economically liberated enough to not need a guy like your average educated big city American white girl, they know they need to maximize their beauty. |
| Blonde will get them far if they work it. By 35, they look 49 if they don't get out of these areas. |
The opposite. |
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WM here. I can't say how white men in general feel (as if there even was a consensus on such a thing) but generally, nope, I'm not physically attracted to most African American women.
I'm even less attracted to the LOUD attitude. I have no problem with strong, accomplished women, but in my experience people who are loud and aggressive aren't strong, they're overcompensating. I certainly feel the same way about the mountain mommas in Appalachia (and other misc. country girls out in ex-urbia) too. I don't meet very many educated, accomplished African American women in my daily life, though, so my "sample size" may be invalid. I have known and been attracted to a few in the course of my life. |
| I believe there is some attraction between the two groups. I remember years ago a white guy asked me for my number in the airport of all places. I was seriously in such shock I didn't even know what to say. It was like I saw a ghost. I would have given it to him, but I'm married so I had to decline. I personally know several black women who married to or dating white men including a friend who just got engaged to a white guy so it seems to be more common these days. |
If you know your sample size is small then you shouldn't spout off such stereotypes. It's just as bad as those who say all white men have small penises or are bad in bed compared to black men. |
You must not live in DC or any other major city |
Joking? This applies to AA women even more, so they should be the most beautiful women in the entire universe!! "There are a lot more women than men as EE (AA) men are either dead, dying, (IN PRISON) or undesirable in large numbers." |
could not agree more. the whole LOUD and playing games culture is a big turn-off. and the physical presence often doesn't help much, either. |
I can't speak for EE women/men, but meeting professional AA men is pretty easy if you travel in those circles. DC is a mecca for black professionals and no, 90% aren't women. Most AA professional men I know date interracially but ultimately marry AA women. The only reason AA men with White women stands out is because AA women are the least likely of all women to be open to dating other races. AA men marry AA women at the highest rate compared to other races. |
| PP here. I meant compared to other people of color. |
White, black, man, woman, whatever - I hate loud, marble-mouthed, grammatically challenged demeanor. |
Congrats! Don't take it personally, but The New York Times just devoted a full article to proving you wrong: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/26/opinion/sunday/forcing-black-men-out-of-society.html? Soon we will see black beauties in every corner! |
You do realize that you are talking about two different populations right? That 1/6 would not have been someone that the professional black woman would have dated anyway. You are comparing apples to oranges. |