Is it rude to invite people to the pool but make them pay the guest fee?
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Anonymous
| Totally rude. |
Anonymous
| We recently moved here, and so no membership for us. I'm quite happy to pay the guest fee and wouldn't be offended one bit if our friends asked us to pay. However, I usually offer to pay upon entrance. I don't want someone to not invite us for this reason. Now, if they are just taking one kid I don't sweat it, but a family.... I usually come with snacks for everyone too. Most people are happy to stay in good graces so as not to risk future invites. |
Anonymous
| I am a teacher/mom and I always let my friends/family know that they are welcome to come to the pool this summer. I would be broke very quickly if I paid the $10 guest fee for everyone. Maybe in DCUMland, $10 per person is nothing but it is a lot to me. None of my friends/family expect me to pay for them either. We invited my son's friend to the pool last week and his mom sent him with $15. $10 for the pool and $5 for a snack. I told her I always pack a lunch and I packed something for him. We stay for 4-5 hrs at least too b/c $10 is too much to be there for only an hour or two. |
Anonymous
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OP here -
I wouldnt invite if I had to pay for them. I am already paying $500 a summer for membership and that is the full extent of our pool budget. I do agree that it was probably bad manners though and I feel bad about that but like PP, I wouldnt want someone not to invite me bc of the cost. |
Anonymous
| For a once in a while visit, just shell out the $15 bucks. |
Anonymous
| Tacky and rude OP. |
Anonymous
I'm sorry, but that is the most ridiculous excuse I have ever heard. If you are in a situation where you can shell out $500 for a pool membership, I am guessing that you can find $15 from another part of your family budget to pay for your guests. If you don't want to pay because you feel you shouldn't have to, that's one thing, but don't pretend you don't have the money. |
Anonymous
You all are funny! I guess you'd rather be not invited. Oh well. |
Anonymous
New poster. Honestly...yeah. If someone told me that we were invited to their pool but had to pay $5 I would laugh and decline the invite. How cheap are you? |
Anonymous
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OP - I would not expect you to pay for me and my kids to swim at your pool. A lot of these PPs are MOOCHES. Next time you can always say something like, "We would love you to join us for a swimming pool playdate if you're free. Just a heads up that there's a fee of $5."
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Anonymous
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S/O -- you host a team party. Do you ask your guests to pay? You're the host by virtue of the fact that you're the only one with a pool membership.
We just asked everyone to kick in $20 and had that cover food/admission/expenses for the party. Is that cool? Or should we have just eaten the cost? |
Anonymous
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What if you were going to the movies?
"I'm so sorry, we can't get together this afternoon -- I promised Larla we'd go see the matinee of Monsters UNiversity and we already bought the tickets. DO you want to come along? The mantinee is $6 kids $8 adults and we're leaving at 2:00." What if you had plans to go to 6 Flags? Why do you need to pay if you invited a whole family to join you? |
Anonymous
If I invite your family to go with us the an amusement park, do you expect I'm paying for that too? |
Anonymous
Honestly, being invited to someone else's members only pool is not a big priority for me, and we can go to our very nice local pool for less money than that. I'd just suggest that we do that (or something else) together another time. |
Anonymous
+1 |