What makes a man a unmanly...

[Anonymous]

Men that are too fat.

[Anonymous]

Men that are rude to wait staff, that are very fussy about what they eat and drink (dude, don't have a cow if there's no lemon in your diet coke!) and a big one for me: guys who can't swim -- such a turnoff to see your guy floundering around in the water like a drowning moth.

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Anonymous wrote:

Emotional weakness - i once dumped a guy who cried at a movie - he made he sick, after that i could not bear to look at him.

Wow -- I don't agree with this one at all. I think it's a shame there is such a double standard about men expressing their emotions in this way. Crying is natural and to me, crying does not equal "emotional weakness" at all.

I don't agree with this at all either but that's probably because my Dad cries at movies. So does my husband. I do think it's cause for teasing though. I tease both of them. They cry when stupid things happen, or at really silly sappy movies! I think it's cute.

I also agree with the manicures and tanning. I'm not attracted to Metrosexuals but most of my friends are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men that are too fat.

What qualifies at too fat?

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Anonymous wrote:Men that are too skinny.

Men with a skinny behind.

[Anonymous]

Men with weak chins.

[Anonymous]

high pitched voices, sandals, tiny hands, men who highlight their hair, any sort of cruelty (humans or animals), men who are afraid of bugs, spiders, etc., men who are not "handy" around the house & can't fix stuff.

[Anonymous]

men who are indecisive, wishy-washy

[Anonymous]

Cant help but laugh as i read some of your posts.. lol
i do agree with most.. like nthe other day i was on the train and this guys comes
on and he was wearing skinny jeans.. i guess men have those too.. he was so tiny..
I could pick him up with one arm and i have never lifed weights in my life.

I am assuming he was going for the rock n roll look but i was so not feeling his everything..

I also do not like it when a man feels the need to curse at another driver with his window rolled up..
Especially if the other driver is a woman. why not roll your window down and curse at the person so
that they can hear you.. i find it totally rude.

Thats just me..

[Anonymous]

Oh! I got one. Men who claim to be sensitive and/or feminist and/or progressive but use it as a shield to be plain old-fashioned manipulative and abusive.

[Anonymous]

Men that act like babies when they get hurt or are sick
Men that don't open doors for women, esp. ones with strollers or carrying many bags
Men that don'e offer their seats in the metro
Men that answer a question with a question (the uplift in tone at the end of the sentence). i.e. Waiter: What would you like to order? Man: I'll have a salad? (my husband does this all the time - drives me nuts)

Men that eat quiche (joke) - but seriously, men that order girly drinks or food (diet coke, tea, salads as the main meal)
Men that don't stand up for themselves or avoid confrontation (i.e. doesnt want to call the cable company to complain about the over charge)
Men that drive luxury sports cars - esp. a porsche
men that take control over house decorating issues

I hope I am not offending anyone, my husband is guilty of many of the above.

[Anonymous]

Men who wear pink. sorry, can't stand it.
Men who don't like curves on a woman.
Men who think yoga is gay, but can't even touch their toes. (seriously, i don't think they'll be capable of much in bed if they have no flexibility in the hips)
Men who put too much say into the decor of the house.
Men whose pants are too tight, especially if they have no butt.

[Anonymous]

Yes, men who are mean to waitstaff, etc... although i guess that's not specific to men. The indecisive thing used to turn me off in my dating days, maybe because I'm terribly indecisive myself!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men that act like babies when they get hurt or are sick
Men that don't open doors for women, esp. ones with strollers or carrying many bags
Men that don'e offer their seats in the metro
Men that answer a question with a question (the uplift in tone at the end of the sentence). i.e. Waiter: What would you like to order? Man: I'll have a salad? (my husband does this all the time - drives me nuts)

Men that eat quiche (joke) - but seriously, men that order girly drinks or food (diet coke, tea, salads as the main meal)
Men that don't stand up for themselves or avoid confrontation (i.e. doesnt want to call the cable company to complain about the over charge)
Men that drive luxury sports cars - esp. a porsche
men that take control over house decorating issues

I hope I am not offending anyone, my husband is guilty of many of the above.

Oh my god, some of these apply to my husband. Everytime we go out for drinks I cringe when he orders a Mai Tai. If the drink is not sweet and a primary color, he is not having it.

[Anonymous]

men who drive mini vans

men who eat yogurt

men who drink wine coolers