I now only use IG to consume information. I follow kids' schools and activities, local event groups, and people who make content that is helpful to me in some way -- travel tips, Excel spreadsheet tips, financial planning tips, crochet ideas, decorating ideas, parenting strategies, etc. I don't post and only a handful of the friends and family I follow actually post photos. I think some people still post stories but I refuse to view stories because (1) they are intentionally addictive and will just suck me into spending more time on IG than I want, and (2) I think it's a privacy violation to share that I've viewed a story with the creator -- what I choose to look at is my business and I think it's weird IG does this. I used to be a heavy IG user and posted frequently. But like OP said, I realized I was mostly posting for validation and to try and project a specific image to friends and family. Like most IG users, I heavily curated what I posted and was just getting too focused on trying to use the app to get people to see me a certain way. I am happy to have my privacy back. I can still share photos with people via text, and do, but it feels more like just sharing a piece of my life than trying to craft a whole image for me and my family. |
| Younger generation is on instagram and tiktok. I am older and still in FB to keep in touch with close family and friend that are not living nearby and for some health related and travel related groups |
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Well, we are all here!
I'm on FB to keep up with people. I'm in Instagram yet never post. I'm on there to follow some family and friends. I used LinkedIn for business and have made so much money from it that I will probably keep it. |
| I think there is more of a lean of lookers and not posters. I rarely ever post but I will comment on others and send likes. I think that the ads have sucked the fun out of it. |
Haha. Good point. Do you feel good now with our validation, OP?
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Nope! Never had any accounts like that. |
How is an anonymous site validating??? |
| Gosh. I hope OP is right. Good riddance!!! |
| My 17 year old only just recently got an IG account. I get the impression she uses it to message people far more than regular old texting. |
Yes and they're sharing pictures on snapchat. OP doesn't know any GenZ kids. |
| Good news. What a mess this has been for everyone. |
This is my 18 year old, all day. |
| They’re on YouTube. It’s worse than Facebook. |
Do you follow your kids and all their friends on social media? That’s weird, no wonder they’re not posting anything. They’ve probably moved to a different platform that you’re not on. And what does you giving up FB have to do with GenZ? |
They are talking to ai companions and getting their social needs/social validation met there. This is worse than sm! |