I deserve better

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yea, this is your fault. It's your birthday and you didn't look at your phone for hours to see if you'd hear from your boyfriend? That's odd.

No. It's his fault. She communicated, a week ago, that she'd like to spend time. He didn't make it a priority. He waited until the day of, probably to see if something better would come along. He's 100% treating her like he could take it/leave it.

Leave him, OP. He sucks, and you do deserve better. Don't settle.

That's how one becomes a bitter old cat lady yelling at kids on their lawn.

Better than being a trope-spewing basement dweller regurgitating incel culture nonsense on a mommy board. *shrug*

When women are incels, they are called femcels, if that's what you are trying to call the OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yea, this is your fault. It's your birthday and you didn't look at your phone for hours to see if you'd hear from your boyfriend? That's odd.

No. It's his fault. She communicated, a week ago, that she'd like to spend time. He didn't make it a priority. He waited until the day of, probably to see if something better would come along. He's 100% treating her like he could take it/leave it.

Leave him, OP. He sucks, and you do deserve better. Don't settle.

That's how one becomes a bitter old cat lady yelling at kids on their lawn.

Says the incel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And he planned out a romantic dinner, invited you.. and you didn't respond in a timely manner.

Sure, break up with him. Plenty of other men out there who will be better planners, and meet all your other requirements, right?

He gave her hours notice, day-of. That's not planning. That's procrastinating, at best.

[Anonymous]

You both sound needy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner.
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.

Why do you think that?
It's your fault you didn't check your messages on your own Bday. Who does that?

Sounds like you are not mature enough for an adult relationship.
Also why are you dating man-children who play video games?

Let us guess, he is close to your own age and not at least 10 years older huh? That's what you get for dating children.

Eww. Grown men are, by definition, not children, and shouldn't need even the basic level of handholding OP provided. Someone who cared wouldn't need to be told to make plans for her birthday. He would've asked, at a minimum.

Quit excusing mediocrity from "men". Guys, you need to grow up!

Quit treating them like children then?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And he planned out a romantic dinner, invited you.. and you didn't respond in a timely manner.

Sure, break up with him. Plenty of other men out there who will be better planners, and meet all your other requirements, right?

He gave her hours notice, day-of. That's not planning. That's procrastinating, at best.

Hours yes. OP is an attention seeker and manipulative. "me me me!"
She can reap her rewards. She gives real women a bad name.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner.
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.

Why do you think that?
It's your fault you didn't check your messages on your own Bday. Who does that?

Sounds like you are not mature enough for an adult relationship.
Also why are you dating man-children who play video games?

Let us guess, he is close to your own age and not at least 10 years older huh? That's what you get for dating children.

Eww. Grown men are, by definition, not children, and shouldn't need even the basic level of handholding OP provided. Someone who cared wouldn't need to be told to make plans for her birthday. He would've asked, at a minimum.

Quit excusing mediocrity from "men". Guys, you need to grow up!

Quit treating them like children then?

In a comment thread saying men have to have a 10-year head start to show enough maturity to plan a simple birthday hangout with more than 24-hours notice after being asked to do so a week in advance?

The bar is in hell and y'all still trip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner.
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.

Why do you think that?
It's your fault you didn't check your messages on your own Bday. Who does that?

Sounds like you are not mature enough for an adult relationship.
Also why are you dating man-children who play video games?

Let us guess, he is close to your own age and not at least 10 years older huh? That's what you get for dating children.

Eww. Grown men are, by definition, not children, and shouldn't need even the basic level of handholding OP provided. Someone who cared wouldn't need to be told to make plans for her birthday. He would've asked, at a minimum.

Quit excusing mediocrity from "men". Guys, you need to grow up!

Quit treating them like children then?

In a comment thread saying men have to have a 10-year head start to show enough maturity to plan a simple birthday hangout with more than 24-hours notice after being asked to do so a week in advance?

The bar is in hell and y'all still trip.

Modern men are a product of single-mothers and 60% divorce rates.

[Anonymous]

Let this relationship go.
He’s not into you. You know this.

[Anonymous]

I've been the boyfriend in this situation. My girlfriend was an adult (over 30) but had a whole bunch of softly implied expectations that I often failed to read to her satisfaction. Maybe she's a little demanding, maybe I'm a little on the old spectrum.

Either way, it was best that we split just so she didn't live in a state of constant dissatisfaction with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner.
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.

Why do you think that?
It's your fault you didn't check your messages on your own Bday. Who does that?

Sounds like you are not mature enough for an adult relationship.
Also why are you dating man-children who play video games?

Let us guess, he is close to your own age and not at least 10 years older huh? That's what you get for dating children.

Eww. Grown men are, by definition, not children, and shouldn't need even the basic level of handholding OP provided. Someone who cared wouldn't need to be told to make plans for her birthday. He would've asked, at a minimum.

Quit excusing mediocrity from "men". Guys, you need to grow up!

Quit treating them like children then?

In a comment thread saying men have to have a 10-year head start to show enough maturity to plan a simple birthday hangout with more than 24-hours notice after being asked to do so a week in advance?

The bar is in hell and y'all still trip.

It's thanksgiving week. People tend to be busier than usual in the days leading up to today.

[Anonymous]

Video games with friends. A real priority. Don't have kids with this one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yea, this is your fault. It's your birthday and you didn't look at your phone for hours to see if you'd hear from your boyfriend? That's odd.

+1000 I'm not buying this at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner.
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.

You do. So what are you going to do about it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yea, this is your fault. It's your birthday and you didn't look at your phone for hours to see if you'd hear from your boyfriend? That's odd.

+1000 I'm not buying this at all.

Exactly. Nobody goes an entire day on their birthday, ignoring their phone.

OP is a liar and deserves to be dumped by that poor guy.