Would you date a twice-married woman or man if you want a LTR?

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Anonymous wrote:Check on if their adult children like them.

Good idea. But what if they never had kids?

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Tell us more OP.

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I mean, when I was getting married I didn't even want to date men who had divorced parents. And still, I think for a first marriage that is a good place to start.

As a fully fledged adult? I'm still married, but were I suddenly single again I'd be hard pressed to find somebody who hadn't been divorced at least once. And twice is just a step past that. So sure, why not? Circumstances vary. I'd go in with my eyes wide open, though.

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Anonymous wrote:Details married. Are they twice divorced? Widowed?.

Twice divorced.

Twice divorced, no abuse, no cheating.

So they just got divorced for the hell of it twice?

At minimum this shows a lack of commitment to working towards the long-term. They get bored and they are out.

It also likely means they aren't being very honest with themselves and thus to you about why things ended zero instrospection or self work.

I wouldn't expect anything serious with them.

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Absolutely yes. Pam Bondi and Nance Mace are both divorced twice. I would date either of them in a heartbeat.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely yes. Pam Bondi and Nance Mace are both divorced twice. I would date either of them in a heartbeat.

I guess you love bolt-on tits.

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Third time’s a charm.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely yes. Pam Bondi and Nance Mace are both divorced twice. I would date either of them in a heartbeat.

I guess you love bolt-on tits.

Ha ha, not so sure of that. Though Nancy looks like she could be a major b#&$h.

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Anonymous wrote:Red flag or no? 40s-50s.

Divorced people... I'd say it depends on WHY they divorced.

Usually the person who ejects and files for divorce, is the type of person who cannot commit.

If the same person initiated the divorce twice, that's a HUGE red flag.

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I would be incredibly unlikely to date someone who was twice divorced unless I already knew them very well before dating. There is just too big of a chance that they either lack coping skills or good judgment. I don’t need to waste time finding out which one it is (or if they were the exception to the rule).

After the death of my mom, My dad married a 60 year old woman who was divorced three times and is just shocked that it isn’t going well. I think he is a moron.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely yes. Pam Bondi and Nance Mace are both divorced twice. I would date either of them in a heartbeat.

not into women myself but she seems like someone that would know how to party and have a good time.

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Depends did their partners die or divorce them?

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In my career, I have worked with two men who are on their 5th marriage. Unless they're packing it, have no idea what their appeal is, but how in the world can a woman be happy about being someone's 5th wife?

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely yes. Pam Bondi and Nance Mace are both divorced twice. I would date either of them in a heartbeat.

not into women myself but she seems like someone that would know how to party and have a good time.

She looks very old for age 47

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My exH is twice divorced now. He was beating our DC, verbally abused me, and cheated serially. He pretends to be an examplorary dad in front of his new GF and her two young kids, and tells her I left him for no reason.
Our adult DC does not communicate with him. I think it's a good idea to see what their relationship with grown up kids looks like