Would you date a twice-married woman or man if you want a LTR?
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Anonymous
| Red flag or no? 40s-50s. |
Anonymous
| 50s yes. 40s, maybe. |
Anonymous
| Yes. Circumstances vary. |
Anonymous
| fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, a fooled man can't get fooled again |
Anonymous
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Probably a red flag. My uncle got dumped by his live-in girlfriend when they were in their 70s. She met somebody else during a hobby who willing to marry her and improve her financial security. She had been married twice and my uncle was her 3rd LTR. My uncle was no prize, but the impact of this breakup was tough on his older years plans.
My take is that people who are used to bailing are able to exercise that option when they need to. |
Anonymous
| Details married. Are they twice divorced? Widowed?. |
Anonymous
| Check on if their adult children like them. |
Anonymous
| Never. |
Anonymous
| Nope don't. I went on date recently and my date was trying to convince me that I should think about being in a serious relationship again and possibly remarry. I was lady I am the divorced man and you are trying to tell me to try again and the second time I may be a better husband. Women I fell ya, some of you think you are so special and with you it may be different. No I am walking red flag like many divorced men (and women as well). |
Anonymous
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It’s so dependent on circumstances.
I have a friend in her late 40s - twice divorced + two broken off engagements. She’s pretty, professionally successful, owns her home outright, no kids, inshape, etc. She’s just been very unlucky in love - first husband was cheating, second husband was abusive + hidden addict. She gets a ton of high quality men interested in her - usually divorced guys with teenage kids, great careers (lawyers, bankers, etc). I would absolutely set her up with friends, but she seems to have no shortage of male attention. I think her “man picker” is just broken. If someone trickle-truths their history, I think that’s a big red flag. In contrast, my friend is very upfront about her history when dating. |
Anonymous
No. Nothing against them but you don't need unnecessary complications in life. |
Anonymous
| 🚩 |
Anonymous
Twice divorced. |
Anonymous
Twice divorced, no abuse, no cheating. |
Anonymous
| No, a woman with two failed marriages is a huge red flag |