If she can get "my man", he isn't my man, and she can have him. |
Your mom. |
20s, single, no kids, regular job |
It’s been a decade and they didn’t last after I threw him out, but she was on track team at one of the local colleges. |
Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness |
They sound like trash, but it's naive to think your friends were honest about you vs. the AP. |
are they still together? |
Church. My friend's husband met married AP at church. Apparently they did not read the 10 Commandments. |
No, not really. I think she's 2 or 3 years younger. Other than being the AP there's nothing really to hate about her. And that took a lot of therapy and time and healing for me to say. ![]() |
No you helped f up those kids lives he left for a reason you are part of that reason |
People with any self-worth ask for a divorce when they are not happy in a marriage before sneaking around on the side testing the waters first. |
Looks like the AP got triggered. |
You forgot that she likes to have sex with him. |
She was nice to him and gave him sex. That's all it took to get him. And that's all you had to do to keep him. |
She's a younger version of me. It's pretty creepy |