Am I a stalker?
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Anonymous
| Legally, no. Colloquially, yes. You’re crossing boundaries and behaving obsessively and intrusively. His wife and kid? That is WAY over any acceptable line. You need to stop. It wouldn’t be the worst idea to get therapy and figure out what is missing/wrong in your life that you feel the need to behave this way. There’s a healthy way to work on whatever that is. |
Anonymous
| But why? Whats yoru intention? |
Anonymous
| OP, would you feel uncomfortable admitting this to your coworker? If yes, then I vote stalker. |
Anonymous
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How do you have time for all this when you are a Physician??
back off, please |
Anonymous
| You’re bored lonely and this is sad. It’s not serving you. It’s also pathetic. Think about what he would think. He’d be really freaked out right? |
Anonymous
| why would you watch his son's basketball game?? |
Anonymous
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No, but you seem to have a mental health issue. It’s good you’re aware of it. Don’t go down the rabbit hole, because at point, you will become a stalker. |
Anonymous
| How many cats do you have? |
Anonymous
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I think it's creepy. Driving by someones house? Looking up their kid's school activities? Taking screenshots of them?
Nopenopenope. Stalker vibes for sure. |
Anonymous
| Pull way back. Like cold turkey cut yourself off back. This is not normal. |
Anonymous
Good god- that is WAY over the top. |
Anonymous
This would freak me out the most |
Anonymous
+1 I was surprised this didn't get as much attention as the screenshot. Imagine if this were a man, watching his co-worker's daughter's sports or dancing. We'd be calling him a major perv. |
Anonymous
| There are plenty of single men out there, op. Focus your energies on finding one of them instead of obsessing over your married coworker. |
Anonymous
+100 |