Are you in love with your spouse after many years?

[Anonymous]

Love yes in love no not happy

[Anonymous]

I feel very much in love. We are at about 21 years. But I know how fortunate I am.

[Anonymous]

No, he’s an idiot. Seen too much of his idiot side. Whole marriage is now a parent / child dynamic.

[Anonymous]

I hate my wife. I wish I had the courage to divorce her. I pray that I wake up one day and she files for divorce. I have nobody but myself to blame for failing to foresee a psychotic narcissist in the future

[Anonymous]

In love no, do I love him no. But after 31 years together we have been through alot and I'm very comfortable with him and we have a good partnership relathionship with sex thrown in. To be honest he does what I want him to do so why should I leave.

At this point there's certain things that are mutually beneficial for both of us to stay.

[Anonymous]

I don't feel in love anymore. My spouse is very critical and constantly corrects me. He's also controlling, but I've learned to set boundaries. And I can't remember when he said, "I love you." He complains about a lack of intimacy but can't show kindness or express affirmation. I don't understand how men can complain about physical intimacy but offer no emotional intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Together 16 years, married 13. Yes we are both still in love with each other. Sometimes one of us loves the other more and visa versa but overall we truly love and respect each other.

[Anonymous]

Yes in love and happy. 20 years married, 23 together. He's funny and a good person and we have shared goals (mainly our kids, our extended families, and love of travel.) Does he frustrate the hell out of me? Yes, regularly and I'm sure I do him. But at the end of the day, he's got my back and I've got his. He's my best friend. And we still have regular sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm so in love with my DH at 20 years married, 24 years together. This thread is a reminder that i need to dote on him more this week. We had a wonderful summer being very connected, and the last month i've been taking him for granted - too much work, back to school, and other things on my mind. I just sent him an intimate text from the other side of the house. Thanks for reminding me OP that I shouldn't take him for granted. I think he feels the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In love no, do I love him no. But after 31 years together we have been through alot and I'm very comfortable with him and we have a good partnership relathionship with sex thrown in. To be honest he does what I want him to do so why should I leave.

At this point there's certain things that are mutually beneficial for both of us to stay.

So depressing....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'm so in love with my DH at 20 years married, 24 years together. This thread is a reminder that i need to dote on him more this week. We had a wonderful summer being very connected, and the last month i've been taking him for granted - too much work, back to school, and other things on my mind. I just sent him an intimate text from the other side of the house. Thanks for reminding me OP that I shouldn't take him for granted. I think he feels the same.

What's your number so my wife can call you. Some of us DHs have been taken for granted for years. And so have some of the DWs by their DHs. Good for you though that you appreciate your spouse and I am sure he appreciate you equally.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. It’s not reciprocated, but I love him deeply.

Aw. Tugged at my heart for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, she’s a keeper

This can’t be a man.

Of course I am

Gay man then.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In love no, do I love him no. But after 31 years together we have been through alot and I'm very comfortable with him and we have a good partnership relathionship with sex thrown in. To be honest he does what I want him to do so why should I leave.

At this point there's certain things that are mutually beneficial for both of us to stay.

This is so gross. And there is no such word as alot.