When will St Mary’s/Alexandria publicly announce Honor Roll?

Anonymous
Does your student seem upset about this or are you just mad? It is an odd hill to die on.

During the school year it was in the weekly newsletter via a link, they sent an email last year but it is different every year. For example, they have at times included a list in a mailing, but this year they included the certificates in the report card packet.

I don’t think it is an intentional slight directed at academics or wanting to coddle children. They raised the bar for academic honors this year after all, which by the way is different at every school.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Even though this is a troll, I will bite-- what kind of "public announcement" are you looking for? I truly don't know what you mean by this. Like, your kid's name in the newsletter? Why would this be important to you?


They announce in emails every silly, mundane “accomplishment” by students, including sports stuff. You’d think that a SCHOOL would celebrate and publicly congratulate those who do well ACADEMICALLY as well. It used to be pretty common.

But I guess nowadays, they don’t want to hurt anyone’s iddy biddy feelings. Especially big donors’.


Well it sure seems like your "iddy biddy feelings" have been hurt.

What did the school say when you asked why it wasn't included?


Sorry your child didn’t make honor roll. But hopefully they’ll get “student of the month” — for helping to hand out pencils or whatever they give it for. Which the school plasters all over the place (in the lobby, etc) and has a special assembly to publicly congratulate.

So bizarre.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Does your student seem upset about this or are you just mad? It is an odd hill to die on.

During the school year it was in the weekly newsletter via a link, they sent an email last year but it is different every year. For example, they have at times included a list in a mailing, but this year they included the certificates in the report card packet.

I don’t think it is an intentional slight directed at academics or wanting to coddle children. They raised the bar for academic honors this year after all, which by the way is different at every school.


They used to do both —- send certificates in the mail AND announce. Seems pretty intentional and a big change in priorities/values to me.

How did they raise the bar for academics?
Anonymous
Actually, the school holds a ceremony for students who make the Principal’s List (95 and above).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Actually, the school holds a ceremony for students who make the Principal’s List (95 and above).


Yeah, during the year for first and second trimesters. They did ZERO to publicly acknowledge principals list for last trimester. Sad.
Anonymous
Got it. Your kid made Principal’s and you are upset there wasn’t recognition.

They have never done the ceremony in the summer, and they have not always announced academic honors in the summer.

Want to solve your complaint? Just post your child’s certificate on Facebook, and everyone will happily congratulate you. Problem solved.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Got it. Your kid made Principal’s and you are upset there wasn’t recognition.

They have never done the ceremony in the summer, and they have not always announced academic honors in the summer.

Want to solve your complaint? Just post your child’s certificate on Facebook, and everyone will happily congratulate you. Problem solved.


I totally get why they didn’t publicly acknowledge academic achievement this summer. It’s so difficult and hard to copy and paste a list in the end of year email. They’re too busy. Stop complaining.

Btw, many of the nearby public schools publicly congratulated and noted honor roll recipients. They somehow found the time. If public schools place more of a value on academics than you do as a private school, you have problems.
Anonymous
Why do you care? Honor Roll hardly is merit based. Many students get extra time for tests or special accommodations, etc., so being on honor roll tells me nothing. I tell my kids to compete only with themselves — bc competing with others in school is a rigged game and a lost cause nowadays.

On the other hand, NOT being on honor roll says a lot!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Even though this is a troll, I will bite-- what kind of "public announcement" are you looking for? I truly don't know what you mean by this. Like, your kid's name in the newsletter? Why would this be important to you?


They announce in emails every silly, mundane “accomplishment” by students, including sports stuff. You’d think that a SCHOOL would celebrate and publicly congratulate those who do well ACADEMICALLY as well. It used to be pretty common.

But I guess nowadays, they don’t want to hurt anyone’s iddy biddy feelings. Especially big donors’.


Well it sure seems like your "iddy biddy feelings" have been hurt.

What did the school say when you asked why it wasn't included?


Sorry your child didn’t make honor roll. But hopefully they’ll get “student of the month” — for helping to hand out pencils or whatever they give it for. Which the school plasters all over the place (in the lobby, etc) and has a special assembly to publicly congratulate.

So bizarre.


My kid's school doesn't do any of this sh*t, so I could not care less. But clearly, you have NOT asked the school. Why not?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Back again with a new thread? Time to take your kids out of St. Mary’s since you are so unhappy.

We are at another Alexandria parochial and they don’t make any announcements. The kids get honor roll certificates with their report cards.


That’s sad. Too bad your school doesn’t celebrate or acknowledge students who worked hard and excelled — presumably just to spare the feelings of those who didn’t.

You should save your money and go public. They too don’t really value academics.

St Mary’s traditionally publicly announced both Honor Roll and Principal’s List. Hopefully that hasn’t changed (eg, just bc some big donor’s kid didn’t make it).


You’re a pleasant person, aren’t you?

What about the kids who worked extremely hard, but “only” earned a C because of challenges your perfect child doesn’t have to endure.

Perhaps that child’s accomplishments are actually greater than your child’s, who may not have to work hard to get an A.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why do you care? Honor Roll hardly is merit based. Many students get extra time for tests or special accommodations, etc., so being on honor roll tells me nothing. I tell my kids to compete only with themselves — bc competing with others in school is a rigged game and a lost cause nowadays.

On the other hand, NOT being on honor roll says a lot!


OMG IKR? And all those kids who have glasses because they’ve found some doctor to say their vision isn’t strong enough. Give me a break. If they just squint a little and stop being so lazy they’d be fine.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Back again with a new thread? Time to take your kids out of St. Mary’s since you are so unhappy.

We are at another Alexandria parochial and they don’t make any announcements. The kids get honor roll certificates with their report cards.


That’s sad. Too bad your school doesn’t celebrate or acknowledge students who worked hard and excelled — presumably just to spare the feelings of those who didn’t.

You should save your money and go public. They too don’t really value academics.

St Mary’s traditionally publicly announced both Honor Roll and Principal’s List. Hopefully that hasn’t changed (eg, just bc some big donor’s kid didn’t make it).


You’re a pleasant person, aren’t you?

What about the kids who worked extremely hard, but “only” earned a C because of challenges your perfect child doesn’t have to endure.

Perhaps that child’s accomplishments are actually greater than your child’s, who may not have to work hard to get an A.


Honor Roll isn’t for kids who “worked the hardest.” It’s for the kids who ACCOMPLISHED. If you want the former, start a new award for “hardest worker.”

Your mentality likely is exactly why st Mary’s stopped announcing honor roll. Sad to see it poison private schools now too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Even though this is a troll, I will bite-- what kind of "public announcement" are you looking for? I truly don't know what you mean by this. Like, your kid's name in the newsletter? Why would this be important to you?


They announce in emails every silly, mundane “accomplishment” by students, including sports stuff. You’d think that a SCHOOL would celebrate and publicly congratulate those who do well ACADEMICALLY as well. It used to be pretty common.

But I guess nowadays, they don’t want to hurt anyone’s iddy biddy feelings. Especially big donors’.


Well it sure seems like your "iddy biddy feelings" have been hurt.

What did the school say when you asked why it wasn't included?


Sorry your child didn’t make honor roll. But hopefully they’ll get “student of the month” — for helping to hand out pencils or whatever they give it for. Which the school plasters all over the place (in the lobby, etc) and has a special assembly to publicly congratulate.

So bizarre.


My kid's school doesn't do any of this sh*t, so I could not care less. But clearly, you have NOT asked the school. Why not?


I have. No response. Shocker!
Anonymous
Does not announcing honor roll = lower academic standards?

If standards are lowered, what have the kids on honor roll actually accomplished?
Anonymous
If this is at all representative of the average parent or family at St. Mary's, I can see why your teachers keep leaving.
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