Ahh a future SAHM striver. Good luck with that group of fellas. |
I wouldn't date a woman who wouldn't consider sending her (theoretical) children to public school. I have no idea how many men in your dating pool feel the same. |
OP here. I’m explaining my reasonings behind my thoughts for certain expectations but I’m open to lowering them. This is why I’m here and asked. |
OP here. I don’t expect a rich guy either. I make 180k. |
Every single one of these threads lately reads like the “wife is a bad sham”/“using pregnancy as an excuse” troll. |
OP here. I’m attractive but not hot. I’m realistic and would say I’m about a 7. |
Is this a troll? What about ... love?
I have everything you want, I guess. Work PT and spend lots of time with the kids, have a cool house and everyone has a full life. Husband has salary to cover our life needs. I found my husband when I was 28 and he was 26 living in a group house. I dare say that I loved him and that's why I married him. |
Much of what drives up the cost of a home in a "good" area is the quality of the public schools there. Since you seem set on private schools anyway maybe you can settle for a nice home in a decent area and lower your income requirement somewhat. |
You are not tall and thin enough... gonna need to calibrate on the self-evaluated "cute" -- what famous person/actress do you look like? You may be more realistically headed toward public schools and continuing to work... which is PERFECTLY fine, so don't bash it. |
OP here. I’m just being honest. My ex made 80k, had a bunch of debt, and couldn’t afford to buy a home. Most families need a minimum of 100k to support kids. |
You're just getting warmed up - come back here in 18 months and report findings and experiences if you are still having issues. |
OP here. Of course I want love and a man who is smart, funny, reliable, faithful, trustworthy, a good communicator, etc., but I’m talking baseline expectations. I’m guessing by the comments I need to lower it. What’s a realistic salary I should expect? |
Men are STRUGGLING. Half of them are porn/video games addicts who can barely function or hold down a job. Look up the stats on college graduation rates as well as employment. Women are beating men by every metric. It's hard but dont settle. Youre only asking for the bare minimum, but sadly many men cant even do that nowadays. Thats why the 4b movement is growing |
Ok now you’re asking for something unreasonable. |
OP here. When I say “ good” I mean safe. Public schools are just not very good in most areas. I feel like quality of education is extremely poor and would want the option to send to private school if desired. |