How not to feel bad when other families go on a trip every break

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

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We have had a vacation in years, not even to relatives. No big deal.

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the CO2 emissions of these people are destroying the planet. Be proud that you are not one of these world destroyers (or a least to a lesser extent).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

Me too!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

Me too!

Me three! It is not exhausting if you can afford to pay for convenience - direct flights from preferred airports at times that are not disruptive to family (no super early mornings or red eyes), Clear and precheck, closest parking lot at airport or uber, nice hotels/resorts with amenities in central location, etc.

If not in your budget, check out to points and miles game - plenty of tutorials online.

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Don't count other people's money. I grew up around families that traveled all the time, bought their kids new cars for their 16th birthdays, and generally appeared to live a life of abundance/luxury compared to my own family's frugality. Imagine my surprise when it came time for college and I had lots more choices/options than my friends, because my parents prioritized socking money into college funds vs. family travel.

You have no idea what's going on with other families or WHY they can travel more than you. Focus on yourself. If you're unhappy, make a change.

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Get out of private school

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Anonymous wrote:Tiniest violin etc I know but lots of other families travel to amazing places every break. Europe for skiing over winter and February break, then Caribbean for spring break and summers in Martha’s vineyard. How not to feel bad about your own family when you haven’t taken a real vacation in years besides to visit grandparents?

I don't understand. You compare yourself to other families? Why would you do that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

Then this thread is not for you buh bye

Pp here. We probably travel the most in our circles. I grew up poor. We never went anywhere for any breaks. I didn’t know any better. I don’t think I was jealous. I just thought it must be nice to go to Spain for spring break or some place called Hilton head.

Growing up poor motivated me.

I have one kid who loves to travel like me. Another kid is neutral like my Dh. One kid would rather stay home for breaks. We will be away on a tropical beach or in Europe and he wishes he were home going to the mall with his friends during breaks.

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Comparison is the thief of joy. Stop comparing yourself to the Joneses. They’re going to do things differently than you. Focus on the memories and experiences you are having with your family.

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We explain that we are saving money to be able to fly to see grandparents, and that is more expensive to fly over xmas break? This is more important to kids than Cancun, etc.

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It’s fine to be sad about not traveling more. Those are your emotions. Feel them.

Don’t feel bad though, as in, your kids certainly aren’t missing anything.

I grew up where we did “vacations” to see grandparents and rarely anything else. I love traveling now and I’ve noticed my friends who went to nice trips going up all have way too high of expectations and can’t afford the accommodations they want with their own money, so they complain. So, be glad you are not ruining your kids for later travel! Lol

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

Me too!

Me three! It is not exhausting if you can afford to pay for convenience - direct flights from preferred airports at times that are not disruptive to family (no super early mornings or red eyes), Clear and precheck, closest parking lot at airport or uber, nice hotels/resorts with amenities in central location, etc.

If not in your budget, check out to points and miles game - plenty of tutorials online.

Many of the best places to visit require connecting flights and/or red eye flights.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tiniest violin etc I know but lots of other families travel to amazing places every break. Europe for skiing over winter and February break, then Caribbean for spring break and summers in Martha’s vineyard. How not to feel bad about your own family when you haven’t taken a real vacation in years besides to visit grandparents?

Stop coveting what other people have and be content with what you do have. You'll feel better.

Besides, those other families might be miserable, you never know.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, that sounds utterly exhausting. I can afford all this but I get tired of so much travel.

Same here. Money not an issue but won't travel just to impress someone else.

We travel a lot. I don’t travel to impress others. I love to travel.

Me too!

Me three! It is not exhausting if you can afford to pay for convenience - direct flights from preferred airports at times that are not disruptive to family (no super early mornings or red eyes), Clear and precheck, closest parking lot at airport or uber, nice hotels/resorts with amenities in central location, etc.

If not in your budget, check out to points and miles game - plenty of tutorials online.

Many of the best places to visit require connecting flights and/or red eye flights.

Plenty of places to go to with kids without a connecting flight. I would rather pick a different destination.