This is similar to a couple I know as well. The non-Jewish wife does not say she is Jewish. She is Christian. They go to a messianic Jewish congregation. But getting back to OP question you can’t get sued for your beliefs, so I think her friend’s mom is not quite right. |
+1 |
| It's not true, but she probably believes it because, frankly put, Messianic Jews are nuts. I'm Jewish and once made the mistake of striking up a conversation with one in a public place and telling her I was Jewish. I ended up literally mobbed by a group of them who insisted on praying over me and then followed me around and hounded me in order to "save" me from hell until I managed to escape onto some public transportation. |
It's not true but the people who are attracted to Jews for Jesus (as they used to be called) have a screw loose. It's not hard to imagine they may believe in antisemitic conspiracy theories, too. |
I began reading your sentence thinking "there is no way this can get dumber", but then I got to the end and I was wrong. |
Found the dumber post. |
All religions are a little crazy, but we understand that your ethnic culture has an effect on your mindset. But mixing two religions (with belief, not merely ethnically blending in a marriage/family) is double crazy. |
This sounds anti-semitic. Who gets to decide who is Jewish? |
Keep telling yourself that if it reduces your discomfort with the mix. |
Well... Jewish law has a lot of discussion about this actually. Jews get to decide who is Jewish, and Christian missionary groups that try to offer "Messianic Judaism" as a culturally sensitive way to become Christian are, in fact, antisemitic. The Jews they are able to convert to this everything bagel-scented Christianity had weak Jewish affiliations to begin with or have psychological problems. |
They see themselves as Jewish, so if you agree that Jews get to decide, then they’ve decided they’re Jews, right? You repeatedly trying to just write them off as psychologically disturbed says more about you than about them. |
They believe Jesus was the messiah, ergo, they are not Jewish. They’re Christians with Jewish trappings, and their insistence that they, not the rest of us, are the only ones who truly understand Judaism is what people especially don’t like about them. |
Jews believe that a messiah will come. So believing a messiah has come is consistent. Jesus never claimed to be anything different from Jewish. |
Rachel Dolezol doesn’t get to decide who is black because she lied and said she was black. You can’t “identify” your way into everything. Judaism is a tribal religion and you have to have your conversion validated by the community. This isn’t like Christianity or Islam where you can just say “I believe” and then you are one of them. |
This comment shows a stunning lack of cultural literacy. With the possible exception of Luke all of the attributed authors of the New Testament are Jewish. And the four most important figures in the New Testament were Jewish: Jesus, Mary, Peter (first Pope) and Paul (the most important convert). For better or worse, Christianity is Jewish in its origin DNA and it was founded, started and advanced by Jews (even if that what not exactly the intent). It can’t possibly be shocking to either side that some straddle the middle. To be clear, I’m not getting into the substance of the matter. But calling someone who sits in the middle here “crazy” or “screws loose” is hugely disrespectful on a matter of faith. |