What to expect sexually from 40 year old man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Multiple rounds? Meaning they finish and then can keep it up without a break? I don't think many men in their 20s can do this.

I think multiple rounds mean with a relatively short break

How long of a break? If we stop for 30 minutes, I'm going to be dry and not really up for it again.

[Anonymous]

What can you expect?

A limp D!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What can you expect?

A limp D!

There's some truth to this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Multiple rounds? Meaning they finish and then can keep it up without a break? I don't think many men in their 20s can do this.

I think multiple rounds mean with a relatively short break

How long of a break? If we stop for 30 minutes, I'm going to be dry and not really up for it again.

Either you use lube and get back into it or you don’t have another round. What is hard to understand?

[Anonymous]

DH is 44. Can go multiple rounds, no refractory period rounds 1-3. Depending on what we are doing and time restraints, he can get us both off in 5 min or last a couple hours if that is what I need. The best part though are his oral skills.

[Anonymous]

My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

Interesting. My partner says he’s never been able to last this long before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

I'd suspect lasting longer equals less attraction

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

Oh honey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

Doesn't this imply he isn't very excited about you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My 50ish man stayed hard for an entire hour the first time we had sex and then finally finished after I'd already had 3 Os. I've since learned that he works hard at not finishing until he's determined that I'm ready for things to end. He goes to the gym at least 4 times a week and is in good health. He says that the length of time he can hold out depends on how excited about the woman he is, and that with his last partner he'd generally last at most 25-30 minutes even at the beginning of their relationship. In that situation, she pursued him and she wasn't his usual physical type. In our case, he pursued me and sees me as the great catch, so he seems to be working hard at impressing me in bed. He also says I'm his dream girl type, physically. I've seen pictures of his ex-wife when she was young and she has a similar body and look as me. A man's view of the woman's desirability can shape what his body will do in the moment.

Doesn't this imply he isn't very excited about you?

It means he took a pill, and then fed her a story.

[Anonymous]

One hour is too long for me. Ouch.

[Anonymous]

My DH is 52 and he is one and done. However, before he is done he has already done me once or twice so I have no complaints. Also, I sometimes get sore so once is plenty. I do miss our mid 20s when we both could recover quickly and go at it again.

[Anonymous]

I am one and done myself, so don't need or want DH to be up for multiple rounds. An hour seems awful!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One hour is too long for me. Ouch.

My wife gets impatient if it goes for more than 10 minutes! Of course, she can't finish from intercourse, so that impacts things.

At 40, I would definitely have needed 20-30 minutes in between and the 2nd time wasn't as fun. Hard to determine if that was age or Zoloft, but probably a mixture. I could definitely do every day if it was just once.