Can a woman find love and marriage in late thirties?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s an economist looking for a sugar mommy just one thread over.

He wants “significantly more” than his 120k salary tho so op does not qualify!

And I doubt op wants step kids

[Anonymous]

OP, you speak multiple languages. That's great. If one of them is Spanish I would bet you could try hookingup with a landscaper looking for a green card. Tons of those guys around.

[Anonymous]

No. Everyone knows love and marriage is only for people under 30. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, of course.

Jump right in to online dating, but also let friends and others know that you're available/looking if they have single friends.

+1. A child might be harder, but certainly not impossible.

[Anonymous]

If you are white, yes. White males value marriage and many (not saying most, but enough of them do that you will find one statistically) have the characteristics that meet the BASIC requirements most women are looking for in this area and on this site (college degree, full time job, willingness to settle down)

If you are black, no.

And white men generally will go on to marry white women. I am not calling them racist or even think this preference is racist. There are a few exceptions, but don't get your hope up on being the exception.

[Anonymous]

My sister met her husband at work. Both age 39 when they met, first marriage for both at 40, IVF twins at 42.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you speak multiple languages. That's great. If one of them is Spanish I would bet you could try hookingup with a landscaper looking for a green card. Tons of those guys around.

Why not advise her to hang around a Home Depot parking lot on a weekday morning?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are white, yes. White males value marriage and many (not saying most, but enough of them do that you will find one statistically) have the characteristics that meet the BASIC requirements most women are looking for in this area and on this site (college degree, full time job, willingness to settle down)

If you are black, no.

And white men generally will go on to marry white women. I am not calling them racist or even think this preference is racist. There are a few exceptions, but don't get your hope up on being the exception.

I’m dating an African man currently and I think he meets many of the criteria that White men do according to your description. And he is much wealthier than I am. In fact incredibly wealthy. He is 45 and works for the IMF. But based on his 2.5 million house he must have wealthy parents. We have been dating for a month. He has a doctorate in aerospace from Stanford. Success come in all colors.

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You can certainly meet a good man at that age point.

The issue is kids. The vast majority of good men have married and have likely had children by 40. If they've never been married by 40 there's usually a good reason and I'd be wary. It's normal also to have children by 40. But sometimes life happens and people become divorced or widowed. Rarely do men with children want more children with another woman. Trump is a weirdo - 5 children with 3 women - and not at all reflective of how men tend to conduct their lives.

A 40 year old man who has never married is - in my estimation - a walking red flag. It's not normal. I'm sure there are exceptions, but I haven't met any. So, you'll need to choose. Go young. Lots of single, childless men in their late twenties or early thirties Or be willing to consider seeing men who have had a prior life and likely have children and joint custody.

The percentage of good single men between 38-43 who have never been married and don't have children but want to start a family is going to be a very small pool.

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Anonymous wrote:You can certainly meet a good man at that age point.

The issue is kids. The vast majority of good men have married and have likely had children by 40. If they've never been married by 40 there's usually a good reason and I'd be wary. It's normal also to have children by 40. But sometimes life happens and people become divorced or widowed. Rarely do men with children want more children with another woman. Trump is a weirdo - 5 children with 3 women - and not at all reflective of how men tend to conduct their lives.

A 40 year old man who has never married is - in my estimation - a walking red flag. It's not normal. I'm sure there are exceptions, but I haven't met any. So, you'll need to choose. Go young. Lots of single, childless men in their late twenties or early thirties Or be willing to consider seeing men who have had a prior life and likely have children and joint custody.

The percentage of good single men between 38-43 who have never been married and don't have children but want to start a family is going to be a very small pool.

My experience with single men under 40 and eco don’t have kids has been interesting to say the least. I don’t want to say they are less masculine but they are missing a step. Men over40 with kids on the other hand whether divorced or never married tend to be more fun outgoing and assertive and confident.

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Anonymous wrote:If you are white, yes. White males value marriage and many (not saying most, but enough of them do that you will find one statistically) have the characteristics that meet the BASIC requirements most women are looking for in this area and on this site (college degree, full time job, willingness to settle down)

If you are black, no.

And white men generally will go on to marry white women. I am not calling them racist or even think this preference is racist. There are a few exceptions, but don't get your hope up on being the exception.

I’m dating an African man currently and I think he meets many of the criteria that White men do according to your description. And he is much wealthier than I am. In fact incredibly wealthy. He is 45 and works for the IMF. But based on his 2.5 million house he must have wealthy parents. We have been dating for a month. He has a doctorate in aerospace from Stanford. Success come in all colors.

I met quite a few privilege African kids when I was in college. Black Americans I think don’t have the same success.

[Anonymous]

Gloria Steinem finally succumbed to the lure of marriage in her 60s.

It’s never too late to find love and marriage. Many men actually mature with advanced age so the odds get better that you can find one who isn’t a brute or selfish pig or serial adulterer - anymore.

[Anonymous]

Pickings are few and often there is a reason they were single for long or were divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gloria Steinem finally succumbed to the lure of marriage in her 60s.

It’s never too late to find love and marriage. Many men actually mature with advanced age so the odds get better that you can find one who isn’t a brute or selfish pig or serial adulterer - anymore.

Was it because her BF needed nationality to get residency?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are white, yes. White males value marriage and many (not saying most, but enough of them do that you will find one statistically) have the characteristics that meet the BASIC requirements most women are looking for in this area and on this site (college degree, full time job, willingness to settle down)

If you are black, no.

And white men generally will go on to marry white women. I am not calling them racist or even think this preference is racist. There are a few exceptions, but don't get your hope up on being the exception.

I’m dating an African man currently and I think he meets many of the criteria that White men do according to your description. And he is much wealthier than I am. In fact incredibly wealthy. He is 45 and works for the IMF. But based on his 2.5 million house he must have wealthy parents. We have been dating for a month. He has a doctorate in aerospace from Stanford. Success come in all colors.

I met quite a few privilege African kids when I was in college. Black Americans I think don’t have the same success.

Yes black and African are not the same people groups.