If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Just divorce him next time he’s a jerk. Don’t keep fighting for a bad marriage. You’ll be fine and happy again without him, and it’ll save you a year is so if extra misery.

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10/31/2023 21:19

Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

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Anonymous

They’re not your friends. They’re not even good people. I know you thought they were both. You will survive being the ousted one. You will get to the point where you can laugh or don’t care. It was true: the best revenge was living well and not carrying. Your career is about to take off in the most unexpected way to boot.
Hang in there, 38 yr old me!
Sincerely,
45 yr old me.

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11/01/2023 22:56

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Anonymous

Have a ton of sex, might not get a chance later.

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11/01/2023 23:04

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Anonymous

I’m 39 and hearing out the stuff on this thread.

Thanks for starting op. And happy birthday.

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11/01/2023 23:05

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Anonymous

I love you! You are perfect, and you will just get better.

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11/01/2023 23:07

Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

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Anonymous

Enjoy the baby years, they grow up fast.

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11/01/2023 23:17

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Anonymous

Get that breast lump checked earlier. And maybe start Retin A sooner rather than later. And hug those babies.

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11/01/2023 23:26

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Anonymous

Eat healthy

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11/01/2023 23:31

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Anonymous

You are doing the right thing trusting your instincts to get your 9mos old evaluated, even if your DH/his dad disagrees. There is no substitute for early intervention. And, in general, always trust your mom instincts. You are a great mom!

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11/01/2023 23:36

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Anonymous

Buy as much stock as you can in hand sanitizer companies.

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11/02/2023 03:28

Subject: Re:If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

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Anonymous

Get the divorce that you’ve been too afraid to go through with.

Have more sex.