Happy affair stories

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

Yeah- sure they would love to know mom is out boning someone behind dads back when they are out at sports events.

Why would you tell your kids that? Ew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know if three happy affair stories.

I am divorced. In retrospect, I actually think sheeting would’ve been a better solution than a divorce, because 50-50 parenting sucks.

You probably would have still gotten divorced if spouse figured it out and they would have been pissed off and made your divorce more combative

[Anonymous]

My suggestion is to compartmentalize so it doesn't get emotional. Find someone in a city you visit often (business trips). Don't communicate on a daily basis. Just communicate when you are in town.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

Yeah- sure they would love to know mom is out boning someone behind dads back when they are out at sports events.

Why would you tell your kids that? Ew.

You don't tell them. They figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

The subconscious knows all. Even if it’s never exposed, the dishonesty is there. That’s no way to live.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

They might.

[Anonymous]

but what if you already knew your spouse had cheated multiple times ( a d you decided to stay) ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

Yeah- sure they would love to know mom is out boning someone behind dads back when they are out at sports events.

Why would you tell your kids that? Ew.

You don't tell them. They figure it out.

Or the betrayed spouse tells your spouse and it all comes out.

[Anonymous]

The betrayed spouse makes your life hell. You want to go there? You want to being crazy to your front door? Go for it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread.

Have some class and just get out of the marriage.

I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin……..

The subconscious knows all. Even if it’s never exposed, the dishonesty is there. That’s no way to live.

Thank you, Sister Mary Margaret. Now I will say 10 Hail Marys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Someone is going to pay for it, might not be you, might be your AP, maybe their kids, maybe her husband kills your dog, maybe she gets you fired from work, maybe the AP sends an email to all your Facebook friends… the possibilities for disaster are nearly endless.

But maybe you find just the right person with exactly as much to lose as you and you both carry on for years giving each other the love, intimacy and affection that you long for.

Lemme know how it goes!

This 100%. My STBX thought his little diversion was just that. Well, he lost job, his family and his self respect. And there is no guarantee his exAP affair partner is done making him pay for ending it. He nows lives in a self loathing nightmare waiting for the other shoe to drop. He said it was the worst mistake of his life and he wishes he could back and change everything. So, my advice is get some counseling and do the right thing - work on your marriage or end it. Having an affair sounds fun until you lose everything.

[Anonymous]

Why does your husband not want to have sex with you?

Start there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why does your husband not want to have sex with you?

Start there.

Can’t imagine it. Even my ex-cheating spouse wanted it daily from me.

[Anonymous]

I’m in the middle of an affair. It’s been exciting with great sex and friendship. My private parts started burning a week ago, waiting on STD results. If positive it will not have been worth it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m in the middle of an affair. It’s been exciting with great sex and friendship. My private parts started burning a week ago, waiting on STD results. If positive it will not have been worth it.

Gross. Hope you don’t still have sex with your spouse.