I’m in a dead bedroom situation and am dying! Any good or positive affair stories?
I’ve got enough of the negative, it’s deterred me for years. I’m hanging on by a thread. |
Have some class and just get out of the marriage. |
No such thing as a happy affair story. |
+2 |
Why haven't you gotten a divorce? |
Ok never mind… |
Someone is going to pay for it, might not be you, might be your AP, maybe their kids, maybe her husband kills your dog, maybe she gets you fired from work, maybe the AP sends an email to all your Facebook friends… the possibilities for disaster are nearly endless.
But maybe you find just the right person with exactly as much to lose as you and you both carry on for years giving each other the love, intimacy and affection that you long for. Lemme know how it goes! |
This. While you may experience days, weeks, months, or even years of happiness, there is always a reckoning. Get a divorce. |
Sorry op. There's just too many variables to guarantee a happy affair. It seems like you and your partner have tried everything to get things back on track. Perhaps a divorce is in order |
I know if three happy affair stories.
I am divorced. In retrospect, I actually think sheeting would’ve been a better solution than a divorce, because 50-50 parenting sucks. |
Start planning your exit from your marriage. Life is short. Don't make this one-sided decision for your spouse. If you gave spouse the choice - divorce or being blindsided by an affair, which do you think they'd choose?
I'm sure there are positives to an affair. I'm sure the sex is great. It would be a thrill. The secrecy makes it even more exciting. But it's all at great cost to your spouse. I am 4 years out from divorcing my spouse who had an affair. It was lots of fun for him (at the time). I still don't trust anyone with my heart. I don't see myself getting married again. |
Something is wrong with you if you know of 3 happy affair stories. |
I’m sure the kids wouldn’t say that. Just sayin…….. |
The trauma for spouse and kids lasts a lifetime. It’s the deep seated kind on children that tears its head in their adult relationships. Fir the spouse yiu have destroyed trust in anything and anyone forever.
Don’t be a douche. Get a divorce or get counseling and invest fully in your current marriage. |
Yeah- sure they would love to know mom is out boning someone behind dads back when they are out at sports events. |